78 POSITIVE RESPONSES TO HER SHADOW ATTACKS

shadow attacks

Right now this is part of my list of favorites!

Female shadow attacks are one of the core challenges men face today!

Many of these are mature behaviors and emotional responses that take a while to practice and embody, especially when she blasts you with unexpected attacks.

Hope some of these are already embedded in your DNA!

Here we go…

78 positive responses to her shadow attacks

  1. VALIDATE HER
  2. STAY PRESENT
  3. BE RESPONSIVE
  4. BE IN INTEGRITY
  5. RESPECT
  6. OFFER SPACE WHEN ASKED TO
  7. HONOR
  8. EMPOWER
  9. ENERGIZE
  10. PRACTICE VITAL TRUTH
  11. BE EMOTIONALLY MATURE
  12. SHOW VULNERABILITY NOW AND THEN
  13. SHOW YOUR POWER
  14. CLAIM WHEN APPROPRIATE
  15. BE COMFORTABLE WITH HER DISCOMFORTS, PAINS, PROCESSES, EMOTIONS
  16. BE OK WITH HER SHADOWS
  17. GIVE HER CHALLENGING FEEDBACK ONLY WHEN SHE GIVES YOU PERMISSION TO
  18. BE A SAFE MAN TO BE AROUND
  19. SHOW CARE AND AFFECTION
  20. MASTER YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY
  21. BE A POWERFUL AND TALENTED LOVER
  22. USE HUMOR SOMETIMES
  23. TEASE HER
  24. CARE FOR HER WORLD
  25. BE SENSITIVE TO HER PAINS, FEARS, INSECURITIES
  26. OPEN SPACE AROUND HER
  27. FREE HER
  28. EXPAND HER CONSCIOUSNESS
  29. BE FUN TO BE AROUND
  30. BE CREATIVE
  31. BE REAL
  32. BE MASTER OF YOUR OWN SHADOWS
  33. GIVE HER SPACE TO BE HERSELF
  34. GIVE HER BOUNDARIES WHEN SHE CROSSES THE LINE “PAUSE”
  35. DIRECT HER WHEN IT IS APPROPRIATE
  36. MAKE DECISIONS FOR THE TWO OF YOU – THAT’S SOMETIMES, NOT ALL THE TIME
  37. BE OK WITH BEING GUIDED BY HER
  38. LET HER SOMETIMES GUIDE YOU
  39. LET HER SOMETIMES TAKE CONTROL
  40. STAY FREE – DON’T LET HER MICROMANAGE YOU
  41. GIVE HER SPACE TO RELAX IF SHE SAYS SHE’S TIRED OR NEEDS TO CHILL
  42. RESPECT HER BOUNDARIES
  43. STAY CONNECTED WITH YOURSELF, YOUR OWN DESTINY LINE
  44. HAVE AMBITIONS! HAVE PLANS FIR YOUR FUTURE
  45. HAVE YOUR SHIT TOGETHER
  46. MASTER YOUR MONEY
  47. ACKNOWLEDGE THE INVISIBLE
  48. BE A LEADER WHEN YOU HAVE TO
  49. HAVE A TRIBE
  50. EXPRESS YOUR POWER
  51. GIVE BACK, RECIPROCATE WHEN YOU RECEIVE SOMETHING
  52. VOICE IT WITH AWARENESS WHEN IT’S APPROPRIATE AND TIMING IS RIGHT
  53. COMMUNICATE CLEANLY
  54. LISTEN AND RESPOND TO HER NEEDS
  55. LISTEN TO AND RESPOND TO YOUR NEEDS
  56. WHAT IS YOUR TRUTH? BE REAL
  57. CREATE PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL AND ENERGETIC SAFETY FOR HER
  58. HAVE AN EDGE TO YOU
  59. RECOVER YOUR POWER FAST IF SOMETHING HITS YOU
  60. EXPAND HER
  61. STAY CONNECTED
  62. BE RELIABLE
  63. BE IN INTEGRITY
  64. BE SUPPORTIVE
  65. COMMUNICATE CLEARLY
  66. BE DIRECT, REAL, AUTHENTIC IN YOUR COMMUNICATION
  67. BE SEXUALLY CONFIDENT
  68. PRACTICE PRESENCE
  69. BE CREATIVE WITH YOUR DATES
  70. SHOW APPRECIATION
  71. LISTEN
  72. BE SENSITIVE TO HER NEEDS
  73. BE FLEXIBLE
  74. BE HUMAN
  75. KEEP EVOLVING
  76. BE YOUR BEST
  77. DON’T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER SHADOWS OR HER TRIGGERS
  78. VOICE AND EXPRESS YOUR BOUNDARIES – IF YOU DON’T OWN YOUR BOUNDARIES AND DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT THEY ARE, HOW DO YOU EXPECT HER TO RESPECT THEM?

 

Questions for you

Which of these attitudes do you practice already?

Are you fully embodying them or does she still destabilize you here and there?

Which positive response is your favorite?

Does it always work or are there situations where it will be uneffective?

What else do you practice that is not on this list?