You are only a channel for that force. None of you has control over it. It simply flows freely and comes when two people like you get united within that spirit.
It is the very core and essence of a spirit and your two beings act like a spiritual dynamo, radiating a message further to your environment. You act together as a source of energy, a source of clarity, a source of fire and inspiration.
This force is naturally born out of what you are sharing and doing.
It is not about your own individual ambitions. This is an energy power which does not belong to you. It is simply a reaction for something you are doing together.