Ask him out or get him to ask you out?

Maybe you read the previous pages and think:

“I think I would rather him to ask me out… It sounds better!”

It is perfectly ok!

When attracted to a guy, you can play with both strategies: ask him out or get him to ask you out.

Both work really well and you can easily select the one that suits you best.

Which one to choose?

Well, if you already gave him dozens of hints but he is too shy to take the step, take the short cut and ask him out casually the way I described earlier.

If he is more of a confident guy and likes to be in charge, giving him hints will work better.

Why? Because this gives him something to conquer!

Asking you out will feel like a victory for him.