BLAMING THE MAN FOR GETTING JEALOUS? WHAT ABOUT HER FLIRTING WITH OTHER MEN? IS THAT OK? – ARTICLE

I got this good question from a client:

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“I just have one question…

Why do you blame the man for having this emotional response and jealousy towards a woman?

Often I feel that there is great part that needs to be done by the woman as she also needs to very carefully watch her actions and behaviour while in relationship with a man.

For instance why would a woman that is in love with a man and engaged to him look for another man to be involved with even in a friendship and make her man jealous?

Why isn’t she as well honest and caring about her man’s feeling and try to avoid unnecessary attitudes that make her man jealous?

Why would a woman who is already engaged put heavy make up and go to the gym alone to exercise with other men, make her partner feel jealous instead of inviting him to go with her?

I think to be fair is to advise both the man and the woman to watch their actions and not only to advise men to change their response to the women.

Thanks…”

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Good one!

When dealing with jealousy, you have two ways to go:

  • The first one is to change your behavior, response, etc.
  • The second one is to educate your partner. 

You can coach them, inspire them or share with them.

You can use mirror tactics to get them to realize how it feels to be in your shoes.

Yes, you are right.

I could expand the jealousy program even more and give you extra tactics to coach your partner.

I could as well design a program specifically for women who make their partner jealous and teach them how to stop or modify their behavior.

If you check through the articles, audios and videos, you will see that some of the content is geared towards that target of educating your partner.

But You are right, I could expand on that and give you more tools

I will keep that in mind for future jealousy program updates.

Thanks for sharing.