Got this one this morning! "Hii! I found your website through youtube! Oh my goodness you actually deserve an mba or something, you're amazing! I've just come out of a really bad relationship with a guy, and I couldn't see before, but after listening to your free mp3's I realised how possessive I was, I phoned him ALL the time, got jealous! And now that I listened to your advice I really think we rushed into things before I knew him so he just ended up annoying me when we were going out. I feel so much more confident and I'm seeing a new guy tomorrow and now I know not to get too involved, what to do/say not to do. You're amazing. I love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu -xx-" Pretty cool success story, don't you think! So glad you woke up to your true free nature! Well done! Listen to your "Dating success - For women" MP3/Podcast To your dating power! vitalcoach

Alex from http://www.podcastjunky.co.uk/ just offereed my podcasts this great review! I am honored by his words and delighted he found value in the hundreds of power kicks I recorded so far. Here are his words: "In need of some motivation lately I found www.vitalcoaching.com together with its podcasts and plethora of downloadable MP3s. Presented by Francisco Bujan the founder and director of Vital Coaching, these podcasts bring a refreshing air of encouragement and motivation to anyone in need of an emotional boost. Francisco’s bright and bouncy presentation gives these podcasts a nice welcome edge and you can’t help feel inspired and motivated by what he says. Check out Vital Coaching at www.vitalcoaching.com with its numerous MP3 files or simply subscribe to Vital Coaching’s podcasts via iTunes here." Thanks again Alex! I appreciate your words and feed back! vitalcoach

Over the last month, this woman turned her whole dating life around. I had to share her story! "I've used quite a few of the resources on your site and found them all really helpful. I especially liked the e-book (How to get a man), and I'm very grateful to you for making them available for people like me to use. Tonight I had my 6th date with Steve - And we've spent over 30 hours together this week, so it obviously worked! I found the biggest help was your advice to get confidence in myself, and not be afraid to take the risk. I know it's not easy to find confidence but if I can do it, anyone can. I'm a much happier person now, not only because I got a date with the person I've liked for so long, but because I now have self-belief, and other areas of my life are also improving due to this. I have my 7th and 8th dates with Steve today (Saturday) and tomorrow! I guess I'll be switching to VitalCoaching Relationships now, rather than dating! Thanks again!!" StupidCupid Now, you might think: "Nice success story!" Well, there is more to it! What strikes me is that one month ago she was describing her situation in these words: "I think there's no point in me asking him out - He'd say no - but I still want to tell him how I feel." "There are a couple of things that make me think that Steve doesn't like me. My ex has said that Steve said some nasty things about me in the past." "Whenever Steve comes to my house it's like he's desperate to get away. He always parks his car in the middle of the road so if I try to talk to him he says he can't stop because his car's blocking the road." "I'll give it a try, but I'm not optimistic." Guess what? You were wrong! Not only does he actually like you, you are now dating! You overcame whatever was on the way and got what you wanted the most! Tell yah! Impressive! Well done! Check the full story + Answers Enjoy! vitalcoach

Do you have a degree or a master already? The main question when you want to expand your career path is: Are you going to do it the conventional way or the unconventional one. The conventional way is to follow the traditional curriculum. This means that you sit in a classroom for many years. Get a diploma or degree. Apply for jobs. Get hired. Work in an organization. Etc. That's the conventional way. The unconventional way is to respond to a call. You know that many people who succeed with their career did not follow the usual study line. They took another path. Probably 90% of the work force followed the conventional path while only a fraction took another road. What exactly is that other road? You identify a need in society. You create a response for that need. Now, you have to navigate and stay within the limits of the regulations of course. You can't go around operating people if you are not trained as a surgeon. In many fields, though, diplomas have much less weight and you can practice what you love without the hassle of getting certified or trained in that specific field. Now, why would you do that? Because it might be much faster!!! And, more effective! The problem with classroom training is that you often end up using only a very small fraction of what you actually need for your profession. Some of the tools you did learn might be needed as background or backup but very often even the skills you need to perform effectively with your profession are not there... Even after a few years training and a couple of diplomas! Why is that? Because most of the times what really makes you successful in your profession can't be learned in a classroom: you have to learn it in the field via experience! Practical experience is very different than rational knowledge. Depending on the area you want to focus on, the rational knowledge and tools needed might be very minimal. In other terms focusing on classroom type of training could be a mistake! Suppose you want to set up your own business for instance, what do you think works best to learn the skills:

• Starting your first business when you are 16 and selling this first successful enterprise to someone else by the time you are 20?

or

• Sitting in a classroom for 4 years, learning the theory of business and economics and having a nice diploma and no experience by the time you are 20?

Which of these two directions do you think works best?

Which one will give you the greatest satisfaction and excitement?

Which one will give you the most valuable skills?

Which one will even get you the most likely hired?

These are the questions you can ask yourself.

I believe that if you have inspiration and focus on a field which does not require highly qualified technical skills, than the self discovery road might often be more suitable.

Does this mean that you don't need education at all?

Absolutely not!

You simply need the right balance of theoretical and practical experience.

The key word here is: right balance.

More on this coming soon...

Take care

vitalcoach