"I found you on youtube and loved what I heard so listened to many of your other videos on your website" - DATING FOR WOMEN
"Hi Francisco, just wanted to say thanks for all the videos - I found you on youtube and loved what I heard so listened to many of your other videos on your website - as a trained coach myself I found your style really straightforward, basic advice but everything you say makes sense and it's great to be reminded of these things. You have a such a positive delivery and are so encouraging! Thanks again"
"After reading your stuff on the site it seems you know what's going on. You seem to have the 'mind' for understanding life"
Neo Edo
"Francisco, Thank you so much! What you are saying makes so much sense. Everything you say seems right on target. I can't believe what a great source you have been in just one email!!! THANK YOU!"
LC - US
"Thanks for replying. I'm truly in awe with what you wrote. Great info. I wouldn't have thought of anything you said. Anyways, I'll put your suggestions to use and email you again with an update on how things are flowing in this adventure of mine, heh. Thank you SO much. Please keep in touch"
EL - US
"I want to thank you for you quick response and you advice. Thank you putting me up and keeping spirit in me. I will fight for my inner happiness and I will overcome this challenge, even if it needs some time. Thank you very much for helping me."
MW - Australia
"Thanks for the very fast reply, that's great. Thank you very much!"
RGR - Brazil
"Thank you, it's nice to hear those things out of someone's mouth instead of just in my own head"
"Please listen to vital coaching... This guy sums it up in 10 sentences or less usually-and his advice is true"
Michael
"Hello, Francisco. You've been helping since your first message. If I come to think about anything new you'll be the first to know, thank you very much! Great job!"
"Thanks for your comments. You sure know what you are talking about"
John
"Thanks a lot for your positive reply, I appreciate it."
Chris - Malta
"Thank you very much for you help! You are so great!"
Maria
"Thank you, vitalcoach. What you say makes a lot of sense. I want to move from "victim" to "heroine" in my own life and I see now that action IS vital to becoming that person. Thanks for your wisdom. Wish me luck!"
KC
"Thank you so much! I can't believe how helpful you have been. I feel so fortunate to have come across your website. Thank you."
Ana - Australia
"I have been going through the forums for sometime, I felt that you really care for people and have a heart to feel the same way they do"
Sujatha
"Thanks again vitalcoach, your advice is really helpful. You really are a good coach."
Lily
"Thank you very much for your prompt response, honestly I didn't expect such a quick reply. I would say that you really have a very wonderful job helping people in distress. Once again thank you very much!"
"Thank you for your advice! You confirmed what I was thinking... Glad I stumbled upon your website, I'll recommend it"
Konrad - South Africa
"Thank you so much for your very personal response :-)"
Ashleigh - South Africa
"Thanks so much for your response. It totally makes sense and it's great getting a male point of view."
Coreen
"Thank you for your help"
Sam - UK
"Francisco, you are such a star, thanks so much... I will keep you posted :-)"
SF - UK
"I wanted to thank you for your time and advice. Thanks for all your help!"
Jocelyn - US
"Wow. Your words for me were wonderful. I mean, you nailed the whole year relationship I'm having with him in just one e-mail! Thanks so much! your e-mail helped more than you know!"
"Well, that sounds like some pretty solid advice. Do you have anymore for me?"
Max - US
"Thanks for your response!"
Marie - US
"Thank you very much for the reply, it was very nice of you. All my questions were answered. Of course the most inspiring part of it was: "staying the master of what belongs to me""
S - India
"Francisco, you're exactly right. You're a smart person, thank you for confirming my feelings"
Garrett - US
"Thank you for your response"
Sue - US
"Thank you for your counsel, Francisco; you are very helpful. Thank you for your kindness and for extending your free advice"
Rachel - US
"Just want you to know how much I appreciate your help"
Kelly - US
"Hi Francisco, you are a legend. Your e-mail I must say made me feel good. You are right. Faith, Trust these are pillars on which this universe stands. Thanks a million, Cheers"
Sudarshan - India
"I've enjoyed reading your fresh and honest perspective... I thank you! I love fresh perspectives!"
Deb - Us
"Thanks for your valued feedback. I suppose you are right. Thanks for reinforcing what I already knew."
Tammy - US
"Thanks again for the help"
Jennifer - US
"Thanks Vitalcoach!"
Ginger - US
"Hi Vitalcoach, Yeah what you have said makes sense. It helps getting someone else's view on the situation so thanks for your reply."
Will
"Thank u for your advice and I will keep in touch as much as possible"
"Thank you once again, I felt more confident after reading your reply"
"Thanks very much Vital Coach. Inspiring stuff... I'm feeling a lot better now, and realizing that my doubts were just silly. Thanks again for your excellent advice. It's really appreciated"
"I would read, and re-read, and re-read again Vital's advice on this one, because it's right on!"
"Thank you so much for answering my question it really helped"
CW - US
"I very much appreciate your response and look forward to checking out the new e-book"
BF
"Thank you for your help"
AM
"Hi Francisco, your tips rubbed off, the guy asked me out. I just want to thank you for wonderful advice. Cheers"
JC
"Thanks for the advice!"
TF
"Thanks for your prompt reply and looking forward to more interesting exchanges in the future..."
MJR
"Just wanted to say thank you to your excellent advice. Please keep sending it to me. Don't forget me! Later"
Ashley
"Dear Francesco, thank you very much for your advice. You are completely right. It helped me a lot"
MV
"Sir thank you so much for your response!"
Bishop - Germany
"Thanx for the advice"
Gavin - Wales
"Hey Francisco, I am just writing you back to say thanks for the input and just in case I have any other questions, be counting on me to ask"
Katherine
"Dear Francisco, your consultations are the best. I put to use everything we discussed. Thanks for your valuable advice. Talk to you later this week"
Kristina - US
"Hi, Read some of your responses, good job you are doing up there"
Ronke
"Hi Vitalcoach! You give some interesting advice here"
Zelma - UK
"Hi Vital Thanks for your input!"
Niki - UK
"Thanx for the coaching lol and encouragement.. I will try your approach if the timing is right. Thanks again!"
MTL
"Thanks coach!"
"Thanks for your advice much appreciated - It's good to get some direct & honest feedback - Speak to you soon"
"You have given me excellent advice. I am going to give him space and take care of me. I do need the power back... He was lucky to have me and I am going to have to remind him. Thank you again!" - S
"You advice has been really sound on every topic I have read!" - Tiffany
"Thank you so much for your quick reply - it was extremely helpful" - Claire - UK
"Coach, you sound like you know what you are talking about!" - S
"Thanks for your advice, I now know I made the right move" - Johy - US
"Thanks Vital Coach. You certainly made me look at this from a totally different perspective... Anyway, thanks a lot for the help. I really appreciate it" - N
"Once again Vital Coach thanks a lot for the advice"
"You are the best :)" - SS
"Hi, I have read a number of your posts and I must say that I feel that your advice is very sound!" - Steve - UK
"Thank you so much for your advice" - Lissette
"Wow, thanks for the message. Your message was the best message I've read on this topic. I really do appreciate your comments" - JS
"Just wanted to tell you that it was a pleasure discussing this issue with you and you've been of great help and assistance. Thanks"
"Very profound, I wish I could write like that! And good advice"
"Thanks vital coaching - GREAT post. I think you are SPOT on" - RK
"I saw that you've been giving some great advice and wanted to thank you. Its great to see such helpful advices" - Heidi (Switzerland:) - just kidding!)
"Wow, thanks for your advice... and I think you are very,very bang on with your comments!" - Rachel
"I have seen several of your posts and have been impressed by your impartiality and insight" - CJ - US
"Wow that was very insightful and helped a lot! Thanks so much. It is starting to make sense now" - B
"Vital coaching, your name is so appropriate, because you offered some to me now" - Kaboom
"You seem to have very wise advice" - John
"Your ideas seem to make good sense" - Susan - Canada
"Thanks for the article. It was really good and insightful. Thanks so much, the effort you make to help others is truly commendable" - Michael
"Thanks vitalcoach... Your advice always makes sense" - Auburn
"Hey vital coach, that was very interesting. Talking to you may just save the relationship" - Chibi
"Thanks a lot. I will use that info. You are great for helping me an other people!! thanks again" - MB
"Thank you so much for the reply I just received. I truly appreciate your time. I am adding your site to my favourite panel. Thank you very much, again :)" - Stephanie
"Thank you for your input! I will keep thinking about this" - Lauren - US
"Talking to you was a real honour. I really wanted to send you an email to thank you as I was really grateful for the opportunity to talk to you at least. You did indeed live up to the kindness on your face and the compassion in the photograph which is a great thing as you have this great quality on a large scale with the knowledge and intelligence and strength! A good combination. With my best wishes for now and again thank you" - Susie - Norway
"You know what? When I am reading your messages, I read them and in my mind I see Dr. Phil speaking. It is kinda funny - but you make more sense than that man does! I like your advice!" - Billy - US
"Thanks for the advice, I think you really got it.... " - Toad - US
"Thanks for the advice. When I read that she is not that core of my life it really hit home and made me realize how I was seeing her as the centre of my life. I feel some relief by realizing that is not the case" - Dylan - US
"You seem like a very smart guy!" - Brearna - US
"Thank you for your advice. I know I need to be strong and independent." Sweetharmony - US
"Thanks for your kind reply" - Poly
"Thank you so much for your vote of confidence. I found that in the past when I specifically discounted my own instinct I ended up getting hurt so I'm going with my instinct, and taking what comes of that. Friends and lovers will come and go, but I will still have to get up in the morning and look at myself in the mirror and I want to like that person. Thank you!" - Wingsonfeet
"Thank you for the sensible and decent message it has meant a lot to me. I can only pray I can have you as a coach if I can get the finances to accomplish this" - ST - Norway
"Thanks I am trying really hard to get my power and my self esteem up. You'll be happy to know I talked to my bf about a lot of things the other night and we are back to being a happy couple again thanks so much for your time" - Madders
"Thanks for your vital coaching. I would never dismiss an advice from a guy that looks like you do. I think you're right, gotta keep it light... " - Princesa - Somewhere in Europe
Here are some of the "Thank you" notes I received!
"Your ideas and insights are quite powerful! Thanks!" R - US
"It was very interesting. It helped a lot" BJ - Canada
"Thank you so much for your advice." Peter
"Thanks so much for your excellent advice, much appreciated:)" MT
"Francisco, I am overwhelmed at your kindness. Thank you for this!!" Richard - Barbados
"I must say that just by getting the answer you gave to my questions makes me feel stronger and helped me get a grip. Keep it up and thanks for all you have done for me so far and hundreds more that you have helped." Nico
"Wow! Thanks Vitalcoaching! That was so helpful! And insightful! You're good at this! I love your advice so much I'm printing it out! Thanks so much for your advice and help! Hugs" Fleur - UK
"I LOVED TO HAVE YOUR TIPS. THEY REALLY HELP. A MATTER A FACT YESTERDAY THE HOTTEST GUY IN THE WORLD ASKED ME OUT AND NOW WE ARE THINKING OF GETTING MARRIED" Cat
"I want to say you thank you very much for your response. I appreciate it so much! Thanks for your advices, I just feel so different! I hope this will help me...thanks again!! thanks so much!!!" Galina
"Wow! thanks that was so powerful. It was like my morning good news" Tony - US
"I just wanted to thank you for responding so quickly! Thanks again for all your help and the advice was wonderful. Take care"
"Thank you for sending me the information! It's great!" Jennifer
"WOW!!!!!! YOU MADE MY DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks so much for helping me understand him. You are so helpful! God bless you for that!!!!!!, much love"
"YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please send me more advice. I WANT TO KNOW!!!!!!!" - Cindy
"Great advice.. Thank You.." - Jackie
"At the beginning I would like to thank you for your instant reply! Thank you for your time and advices... Thank you from my hearth!"
"The most important are Spirit and Soul. And that is what I have felt in your messages and at your web site" - G
"Thank you so much for making this service available. I'm sure you help many people on a day to day basis. Thank you for having the well being of others in mind. Until we speak again" - GV
"Dear Francisco, Thank you so much for your advice about my current situation. You gave me a lot of new and useful insight into my relationship. I am going to make sure that my boyfriend and I talk about ways we can help each other evolve and avoid having a freezing effect on one another.
This is an important aspect I hadn't considered yet and I hope it will help us develop more of the qualities that each of us are looking for in the relationship. I also appreciate what you had to say regarding the fact that passion is not the only component of a healthy relationship.
Again, thanks for your advice! Sincerely" - Debbie
"Thanks for the advice again" - Trish - US
"THANKS A BUNCH!" - Johna
"Thank you so much for this advice! It is very helpful. Sincerely"
"Thank you very much for your email. I really liked what you said. You are spot on in so many ways and since reading it, I have been giving myself a friendly kick up the ass to get moving and take a few steps towards my goals without allowing my negativity to stop me.... your email really lifted my spirits for which i am deeply grateful" Emmy - UK
"Hey again.. Thanks 4 the advice.."
"Hey thanks that was a lot of help!!!!!" - Michele - US
"Thanks for listening. I really have no one to talk to about my feelings" - Patricia - US
"I really wanna thank you for this detailed explanation. It was extremely helpful and I found all what you wrote very logical and true. Thank you so much for your helpful advice" - ME - Lebanon
"Dear Francisco, I bought your e-book program some weeks ago and all I can say is that it saved my life! I am a brand new person and not only has my love life improved tremendously, but everything else around me is booming. I have recommended many of my friends to sign up with your coaching programs. I have found them to be the most practical and humane approached to handling break up situations for men. Not only that, you have managed to treat the subject so well that not only the man wins but, in the long run, the "ex" wins as well!
Thank you and keep up the great work! - Yours sincerely"
This time last year, my wife left me. It wasn't a great time...
I spent a month getting drunk and then decided I had to get my life together. I found your site one night while googling for help with my predicament. I bought your course on breaking up for men, and set about trying to put it into effect.
I have to say nothing changed overnight, but I still found your material to be enormously helpful and I referred to it again and again.
Now, a year later, I find I have undergone profound changes for the better. My life is so much richer, happier and more fulfilling than at any time since I can remember. I have become fit, active and more gregarious than I have been since I was a teenager. I have met new women, my career has blossomed and it seems weird to say it, but my marriage break-up has been one of the best things that ever happened to me. I never thought I would find myself saying that.
I hope others in my situation will take heart from my experience. Your course gave me hope that I would come out smiling the other side; and I have. Hang in there, guys... keep your head up, refer to the course and don't ever doubt that you too will end up so much happier than you can presently imagine. Work hard." DO
Whaou DO! Thanks! Well done!
You're my new hero. Keep going that way! Excellent job!
"I purchased your ebook a few days ago on get your power back. I wished I had just gotten this before all the other books I wasted my money and time on. Your book is awesome. Thanks again"
BM
Thanks for your words BM!
Glad the e-book gave you the power kick you were looking for!
I wanted to thank you for your mp3s and e-book. When my Ex broke up with me all I wanted was to get her back, I bought other e-books on how to get my Ex back.
All my attempts failed. I tried no contact, which did eventually get her to call me, but within a couple days of reuniting she was gone again and I really feel it was because I felt so weak inside and would do anything to have her back in my life (she knew all the power was hers - Even telling me she had the upper hand).
I spent a couple months trying to win her back.
She never returned my calls, text messages, nothing... Very frustrating to say the least.
I finally realized that I needed to get my power back. Your e-book is different from all the others because you take time to explain what is going on and that helped me understand what I've been doing wrong.
This really cool review just came in! It's about the wake up your power podcast
"Just wanted to let you know that I think this specific vitalcoaching podcast - wake up your power - is absolutely fantastic! Great content, great speaker - Francisco delivers each podcast so well. Really really find it inspiring and just want to say thank you so much for putting this out there. May the karma come back to you many times. Best regards" SD
Whaou S! That's really cool feed back. Appreciated! Glad you like them.
You just gave me one more reason to keep recording :)
"Thanks very much - I found your 'keep it simple' video really helpful and have been totally following your advice: not making demands, not being possessive, giving him plenty of space, and not expecting anything of him. It works!!
The relationship is going from strength to strength, and we see each other 4 nights a week. The nights he doesn't see me he rings up saying how much he misses me, and saying how much he loves being with me and spending time with me. We have so much fun together, and never stop laughing, but we care very deeply for each other too.
I realise it's early days, so I'm not rushing anything and am still taking one day at a time, but at the moment everything's brilliant.
I really hope other people follow your advice because, take it from me, it really does work!! I've never been happier and am having the best relationship of my life!
"Hii! I found your website through youtube! Oh my goodness you actually deserve an mba or something, you're amazing! I've just come out of a really bad relationship with a guy, and I couldn't see before, but after listening to your free mp3's I realised how possessive I was, I phoned him ALL the time, got jealous! And now that I listened to your advice I really think we rushed into things before I knew him so he just ended up annoying me when we were going out. I feel so much more confident and I'm seeing a new guy tomorrow and now I know not to get too involved, what to do/say not to do. You're amazing. I love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu -xx-"
I am honored by his words and delighted he found value in the hundreds of power kicks I recorded so far.
Here are his words:
"In need of some motivation lately I found www.vitalcoaching.com together with its podcasts and plethora of downloadable MP3s.
Presented by Francisco Bujan the founder and director of Vital Coaching, these podcasts bring a refreshing air of encouragement and motivation to anyone in need of an emotional boost.
Francisco’s bright and bouncy presentation gives these podcasts a nice welcome edge and you can’t help feel inspired and motivated by what he says.
Check out Vital Coaching at www.vitalcoaching.com with its numerous MP3 files or simply subscribe to Vital Coaching’s podcasts via iTunes here."
Tonight I had my 6th date with Steve - And we've spent over 30 hours together this week, so it obviously worked! I found the biggest help was your advice to get confidence in myself, and not be afraid to take the risk. I know it's not easy to find confidence but if I can do it, anyone can. I'm a much happier person now, not only because I got a date with the person I've liked for so long, but because I now have self-belief, and other areas of my life are also improving due to this.
I have my 7th and 8th dates with Steve today (Saturday) and tomorrow! I guess I'll be switching to VitalCoaching Relationships now, rather than dating!
Thanks again!!"
StupidCupid
Now, you might think: "Nice success story!"
Well, there is more to it!
What strikes me is that one month ago she was describing her situation in these words:
"I think there's no point in me asking him out - He'd say no - but I still want to tell him how I feel." "There are a couple of things that make me think that Steve doesn't like me. My ex has said that Steve said some nasty things about me in the past." "Whenever Steve comes to my house it's like he's desperate to get away. He always parks his car in the middle of the road so if I try to talk to him he says he can't stop because his car's blocking the road." "I'll give it a try, but I'm not optimistic."
Guess what?
You were wrong!
Not only does he actually like you, you are now dating!
You overcame whatever was on the way and got what you wanted the most!
A super cool feed back from R from Long Beach. Could not wait to share that one with you:
"Hi Francisco!! I just finished listening to your dating mp3s today. Great Job...as usual. Thanks so much.
I have written to you in the past, I'm R. from Long Beach, California.
I have probably told you this before but I have read all of the self help books you can think of and NO ONE holds a candle to you......Dyer, Chopra none of those guys....
I think I may even love you as much as I love Oprah!!! :) Thanks for all you do!!"
"I recently purchased the e-bookget your power back, and have found it to be incredibly helpful. It has allowed me to see certain patterns in break ups and react intelligently."
My ex broke up with me a year and a half ago and I went down the downward spiral.
The break up was so sudden and devastating that I didn’t know how to recover from it. I had never had to walk through something as painful.
And believe it or not, after a year and a half I was still waiting by the phone! It was really pathetic. I allowed myself to become a wreck.
I finally came to my senses and realized that I needed to get some help for my situation.
I purchased your material and in just hours I felt back on my feet again! I didn’t realize that I could reclaim my power and territory back, nor did I have any idea how to start.
Your coaching has set off a chain reaction in my situation that will continue to allow me to grow and be energized!
Now that I look back on it, it all seems a bit silly. I didn’t realize all the pitfalls I was falling into and all the mistakes I was making to take myself lower and lower.
Pretty much all the ‘don’t do this’ advice you give, well, I did it at one point.
But now I laugh because you have given me the strategy I needed to overcome and feel like a man again. I am truly thankful for you sharing this advice and coaching."
M
Whaou M, you made my day! It's extremely rewarding to hear you story. Glad you found your way back to your power!
It's really awesome, I didn't even read it by heart but it gave me some kind of strength and feelings of freedom, I started feeling the breeze, trees, flowers, shrubs etc.
Looks like my awareness came back.
I also got excited of several future plans.
Thanks sir and more power to you."
B.
Whaou! Thanks! That's a nice what. You really got it!
"I want to thank you. I downloaded your e-book about love. And it's really amazing. It's great and my soul really resonated to it. You are doing a great job. I send you positive vibrations."
Rachelle Thanks for the warm cool vibes, Rachel. I wish you lots of success and happiness with your love life :-)
"Dear Francisco, I discovered your podcasts last night and am listening to them even as I am e-mailing you this message. I am gaining confidence with each podcast of yours that I listen to. Thank you for making them available!"
"You are awesome and I think your email format (Vital News) is great. Thanks for all you do. I listen to your CDs (MP3 Audios) over and over. All the best!"
The list of audio content on vitalcoaching.com is quickly expanding! Most of it now available in podcast format. The MP3 audio content is organized now in 11 different podcasts stations!
Here is another success stories I received recently:
Thank you very much for the incredible insights that "hit the nail on the head" so well. You've quickly helped me get clear on what my midlife "mood" has been about. I'm so glad I found your book! It's practical, well though out, and you obviously know the subject. Thanks! You've improved my life."
JM - US Thanks for the feed back JM - delighted to know that the power kicks did have a positive impact!
"Hello Francisco, I just bought your e-book and downloaded all the mp3 files. I can tell you are a straight shooter who gives practical advice on relationship issues. I'm so glad I found the website! I had done a google search for 'breaking up alternatives' and found you. Once again, thank you for your dedication and compassion for us guys out here who are sincerely trying to build (and keep) healthy, satisfying relationships!
"Francisco, You are a God-send! I am suffering from a "I need to find myself" break up, after 8 years. I still hurt, but your wonderful insight and compassion are helping greatly! I really appreciate your advice."
"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my girl and I broke up. You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to any other guys who are struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"
"Hello Francisco, I'd like to thank you for the fine advice on "break-ups for men" as I'm experiencing this now. I do like everything I hear and it's helping me"
"Hi Francisco,I bought your e-book and quickly became a fan of your site. After listening to the first mp3's I began to feel relief of my recent breakup. I thought, "Wow, this guy knows exactly what I'm going through and what I'm feeling!!!" I recently had a breakup of a 3 yr. relationship with a woman that I really thought had been divinely sent to me (and I to her) and thought I would ultimately marry and have a family with. I just listened to "Power kicks" and specifically the MP3 "I did exactly what she wanted" and thought "Oh my God, that is EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED, exactly!"
Your insight is amazing!! I also appreciate that you sound genuinely concerned and interested in all of these dynamics. I'm sure that's what makes you so good at it.
"Francisco, I purchased your package and it's been really helpful. I wish I had done that a week ago. In a matter of of three days I've been able to make a lot of progress by reading the book over and over. Every time I feel like I'm loosing power I pick it up and read."
"Just purchased your e-book concerning obsessive jealousy. It appears to be just what I needed.
I am 54 and in a new relationship that looks like it might end up in a permanent commitment.
I have always been jealous and I am sincerely trying to overcome this even at the late time in my life. I have been jealous and have been married in the past to someone who was obsessively jealous.
Thank you for writing this book and I can't wait to finish it and apply it to my life. I hope to be married in the next year and I want it to be wonderful."
Jackie Nunn - US You're welcome Jackie. Now is the time to enjoy your couple and be truly happy together.
"Dear Francisco, I must tell you that when I downloaded your book, I absolutely knew it was something that I was going to need.
Call it divine intervention, call it karma... Whatever! But if I hadn't read your insights before this last week, I'd be making a real ass of myself right now"
Barbara - US It's a pleasure to help you Barbara. I hope that these strategies do empower your couple.
When it comes to jealousy, most women tend to feel guilty about using it. In fact jealousy is one of the key empowering tools for your relationship.
You simply need to know how to master it!
This is one of the key topics covered in this e-book: How to master your "jealousy weapon".
A cool success story I just received about the midlife crisis e-book
"Hello, I just finished reading your Midlife Crisis ebook and took lots of notes. Thank you very much for the incredible insights that "hit the nail on the head" so well. You've quickly helped me get clear on what my midlife "mood" has been about. I'm so glad I found your book!It's practical, well though out, and you obviously know the subject. Thanks! You've improved my life."
JM - US Thanks JM! Your feed back is really appreciated.
Something new came out since I wrote this e-book.
I definitely realized that what many people call crisis is actually an awakening!
It feels like a crisis because it is a time which calls for change.
While the winds of transformation feel challenging because many men don't know how to respond to it, these forces are actually very positive evolutionary forces.
Interpreting this awakening time as a "problem" which needs therapy does not give justice to what happens deep inside!
Sure, it challenges the established society values, especially family ones for instance.
This time of awakening can be especially difficult for a relationship partner for instance or the rest of the family.
However, in most cases, this has nothing to do with a depression or crisis time. It is a true realization that some aspects of your life and mind still need to be explored; this is 100% part of your growth and expansion process as a human being.
It does not mean of course that you must just respond blindly to the forces at play; it rather means that the renewal power which stimualtes change is definitely an energy you can use to project yourself forward into a refreshed and happier future.
Another exciting experience form Michael in the US:
"Greetings Francisco, I have been meditating for many years, but have largely avoided the technique of following the breath.
I just watched your video and decided to meditate using the simple breath technique that you describe and I must say that it was the most refreshing meditative experience I have had in a long time.
Also, I have watched a number of your videos in the past and have found them to be very helpful.
Thank you for your gift of service.
Sincerely"
Michael Regusters - Jersey City - NJ - USA Thank you for sharing Michael! This sounds really exciting.
I listen to your Vital Podcast from my home here in Michigan, USA. I choose one of your podcasts each day for mental focus and meditation. They are a positive and empowering influence in my life. I only wish I could do them justice with my words. They are a precious gift and I cannot thank you enough.
Thank you!"
Shelly D.
Thank you Shelly! And delighted to hear about your positive experience with these MP3 audios.
Matthew's wake up call: "Francisco, thank you immensely for your help with my breakup. You have helped me re-focus my energy away from feeling sorry for myself and towards improving my life and getting back on track." Matthew Plomin – US
Exciting success story from Toby in the US: “Francisco,
I needed to thank you for your e-book, and especially the audio files. I bought your package on "Getting your power back after breakups – For men” last Sunday. My girlfriend broke up last Saturday and I was searching for help the next day.
I listen to your audio files in the car going to work, at work, coming home from work, and while I am falling asleep!
Right now the hardest part for me is the "Need to call her" feeling. Your audio file on the "First Breakup Trap" is just awesome for when I feel this. I understand now, and it gives me strength knowing that she will see me as "Needy" and "Wanting".
You can't imagine how many times I play that segment over, and over again. I want her to see me having the power. I want her to think of me as confident and sure of who and what I am. That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!
Again, thank you so much for showing me what she is feeling during this time, and what really triggered this breakup.
I will admit, it is still hurts, but I am quickly getting my power back.
Thanks again, I will keep listening to your MP3’s and gaining back my strength and power. You have truly helped me regain my sanity!!”
“"How to Get Your Power Back After She Breaks Up" by Francisco Bujan is an intelligent, compelling, commonsense guide for men who, as I was, are in that unhappy limbo when your girlfriend leaves you.
He explains what is going on in your mind while you are in this difficult phase and describes effective techniques to displace the pain and negativity with positive thoughts and energy. Within days of reading his book, I was well on my way to recovery. Highly recommended!" GM - The Netherlands
Another success story. This one is from Greg in the US:
"Francisco,
I have been listening to the mp3 files all day and I have to say that so far you have been a life saver!
I had been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and I love her very much, so when she broke up with me for space and other personal reasons, you can imagine my devastation. I did all of the things that I am know learning that I shouldn't have. Begging for her to try again, convincing her that we belong together, always appearing needy to her.
Now I am becoming armed with the tools that I need to beat this. It has been about 2 weeks since she broke up with me and it has been extremely difficult, but I found your book just in time.
I am already applying the strategies and I feel better about the whole thing. It is my hope that your book and mp3 files will help me along with this battle.
Anyway, thank you for the e-book.
And I may be contacting you for some live sessions.
Thank you again"
Greg Marx - US
Well done, Greg. You're definitely on the right track
"Hi! I have recently purchased "How to get your power back after she breaks up" which is absolutely brilliant and has helped me a great deal. It really got me back on the right road again. Many thanks"
Another success story. This one comes from Vicky in New Orleans:
"Francisco,
This week I have implemented what we discussed the other day about my girlfriend. Well, I have learned to change my communication style (no demands...).
I have been going to therapy for a while about this very thing and this helped a lot more. Thank you.
I will contact you again when I need help. You made me see something different about love; many people especially in therapy don't concentrate on love, they concentrate on disorder and behaviour with relationship to the disorder instead of love.
Honestly, that is key: understanding what love really is.
So, thank you for pointing that out to me. Hope you are well."
"Your product is very detailed. It hits the nail right on the head. What you mention in your e-book and MP3s (How to get your power back after she breaks up) is exactly what happens in real life."
Marvin - US
Thank you for sharing, Marvin and congratulations for getting your life back!
"Coaching gave me something to focus on and look forward to on a weekly basis. It helped me structure my life very purposefully and move on very quickly. I now feel very good.
I feel like I have a very good future and that I am in control. I can handle whatever comes my way. I understand myself much better. This coaching that I had over the last month has been very good for me.
Definitely try it! It can really orient you in the right direction."
Mark Bryant - US
Thank you for sharing, Mark!
Take care and wish you lots of success with your love life!
Like you mention in your e-book “this is a crisis” and I need to get my power back. I’m sure you get a lot of correspondence like this, but I wanted to quickly share my story. I think the events will somehow make me a stronger and better person overall.
In the summer of 2005 my girlfriend and I had a wonderful relationship of 5 ½ years. I loved her very much and I wanted to wait for October to propose on my birthday. However, in the middle of September she started to change and suddenly she did not want to hang out with me anymore. A few weeks later she told me she needed space and wanted to date other people…Overnight! Later on I found out that she was dating someone who she works with.
I got very depressed but kept going. Two weeks later my company was acquired by a bigger company and I was laid off. By now it’s close to the Holidays and I have no girl friend, no job and feel like my world is crumbling down. I felt sick. Something told me to hang-on over the holidays and although I went to sleep at 9pm on New Year’s Eve I made it through.
I promised myself to start 2006 with a new outlook and somehow I found your e-book online.
Although I am not completely over my ex, your e-book has helped me on those nights where I just needed a little push to get to bed and fall asleep. I still do not have a job, but I am actively looking.
Thank you again for helping me get through the most difficult time of my life. "
MR - US
Thank you for sharing MR, and congratulations for not letting this break up ruin your life!
Today it is about freedom, something that I’ve wanted for a long time...
I’ve been married for almost 7 years and I was trapped.
Now I’m free from my husband and I feel free, people see me for who I am: a beautiful, vibrant, happy, attractive, smart human being.
One good friend called me a survivor even when I was down.
He said to me yesterday, did I look in the mirror and I was a bit puzzled, and I said well of course I look in the mirror. He said, you know as a man could see me and I said no.
I really don’t know how a man would see me. I love what I see and I love myself very much and I have a whole bunch of goals for 2006… which I want to fulfil. I’ve been so tangled up for so long, but now I feel free…
Yesterday, I rang my ex-husband and told him thank you very much for getting out of my life; it’s the best blessing that he has given me since I was married to him and I wish him the best of luck in his new life.
So thank you very much for the article today, I do appreciate it very much"