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 What if the break up system is not enough? - 8 min

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posted by vitalcoach  # 7:49 PM Links to this post

"what would you suggest if you have to constantlly see your ex at work and other places and you see her with another guy? This keeps me from getting over her b.c I can't spend time away from her."

Repeat to yourself "She is free!", "I know I can't stop her!" which is the truth, right? - It gets 100 times easier for you if you have a new girl in your life as well. Once she is no longer your only dating option this by itself gives you a lot of your indepence back. Yes! I know it is tough to party when your midn is still partly focused on your ex. In the beginning you need to force yourself to go out and socialize - It gets much easier once you start taking small steps

PS: One more thing - If you see her be diplomatic and respectful at all times - make sure you don't engage into "us", "relationship" or "feeling" talk with her. The less you open up to her right now th e freer you'll feel

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posted by vitalcoach  # 6:58 PM Links to this post

 What happens when she breaks up? - 7 min

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posted by vitalcoach  # 5:56 PM Links to this post

"uhmm mister vital coach.. im kim im only 15
i had an affair to a girl for less than a month... i man .. yes im young.. and the relationship i had was just so short thats why i am confused why i really really love her...yah know i gave her my first kiss... i mean the sweetest kiss i've ever made with somnody...and then a week later she dumped me.. for a reason that she still has feelings for her ex...
i mean i still love her till now...
but as of this time she has new boyfriend and it sucks.."

"it sucks coz her bf has really really bad backgrounds and so as really really bad guy..
he steals..he has so many guidance cases in our school.i mean she dumped me and got off with a fucked up bitch person?!?!!

u know b4 we broke up she gave me letters
aying that she nids to fix her self b4 pursuing of what's "ours" but then
it happened,i mean i dont know what does she thinks, but then though she did it to me i still love her.... advice me please...."

hey, sorry to hear that. i know it is tough but when you are young, this will happen again many times.

Don't think long term. You might believe things like "she was the one" or "we were so good for eachother" but life is not playing a trick on you. At this stage in your lfie, girls will come and go. You have to get used to it by simply accepting it rather than trying to stop it and hold to the past  

True! that's the way it feels - Check more vids and my channel!

Everything you need is right there

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posted by vitalcoach  # 4:56 PM Links to this post

I went from being in severe pain almost constantly to feeling great everyday

"When I first signed up for coaching sessions I was an emotional mess.

After having gone through an affair I decided to stick with my wife and family but had tremendous emotional pain as I was still in love with this woman. I was totally unprepared for the pain I went through. I've never gone through anything this painful in my life.

I couldn't stop thinking about her, memories would flood me and the pain and ache of missing her would not go away. My family and work was suffering tremendously, all I wanted to do was sleep.

It wasn't until I found Francisco and went through a series of coaching sessions that things changed around. He used several techniques and gave me several tools that I could use to rebuild my life.

I went from being in severe pain almos t constantly to feeling great everyday.

I'm at the point now that I am so happy that things worked out the way they did. Occasionally I get a painful memory that in the past would send me into a funk for days.

Now, however, I have the necessary tools to not go into a downward spiral but, rather, be happy about my life, my wife and the way things worked out!"

BD - US

Thanks for sharing BD - Glad you got your life and happiness back!

Thrive on!

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posted by vitalcoach  # 3:56 PM Links to this post

 What guys need the most when their girlfriend breaks up - 8 min

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posted by vitalcoach  # 3:23 PM Links to this post

"Thanks for this vid. My ex broke up with me 1 month ago. Sometimes she said she wants me back and sometimes she suddenly changes her mind. I do now realise that she just doesn't want to let go because i'm her first real crush (took eachothers virginity and so on) but she knows that she's killing me by changing all the time so now i'm going to let go of her completely. :) I'm still young, these things happen all the time. Respect for helping us out!"

Thanks and well done! I like you attitude

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posted by vitalcoach  # 2:06 PM Links to this post

"I need help desperately

I'm still in love with my ex my emotions for her run so deep - we were together for a year and gor broken up over stupid little fights.

She also said things weren't the same any as in the aprks were gone
now she's with someone else which just started yesterday
please tell me how to win her back

I'm willing to do anything

I won't give up she means the world to me

I've gotten to the point where I want to hurt myself just to keep the emotional pain out - thank you"

Sorry to hear that.

When you say you won't give up, you mean you won't let her go, right? You see, that's precisely the trouble and the reason why you get hurt. Trying to hold onto something which is not yours. Her life is hers. She is free to do what she wants with it. 

PS: The moment you claim her, you betray one of her basi c human rights. That's how it works. You need to set her free! This will give you back your life!  

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posted by vitalcoach  # 1:06 PM Links to this post

Listen to Angelo's success story - MP3

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posted by vitalcoach  # 12:05 PM Links to this post

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Getting over a girl - Why I care about men in break up situations - What it really takes to get your power back - How long does it take - What you must know about getting over a girl - What to do next

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posted by vitalcoach  # 11:03 AM Links to this post

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Break up support - 3 keys to get your power back - Power dynamics - battle plan - positive action - What you need to recover from a break up - Why a break up is a battle and hwo to win this - What most guys dont know about break ups - How to solve the break up challenge - Finding a new girlfriend or partner - How get ready to date again - What does it take to survive a break up - Why some men stay in the breakup zone for months or years when it is actually not needed

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posted by vitalcoach  # 10:04 AM Links to this post

It helped me structure my life very purposefully and move on very quickly

Listen to Mark's success story - MP3

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posted by vitalcoach  # 9:15 AM Links to this post

"I'm a woman, but I found this vid useful. I've just been dumped by someone. I love the idea of getting my power back, focussing on my own life and not on him. I can't do anything about him and missing him won't change anything.

A word to guys tempted to get revenge by going out with another woman to rub the ex's nose in it. Have a thought for the other woman. I was her and it hurts to know I was used in that way. "

thanks for sharing ;) - Glad you like the vid

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posted by vitalcoach  # 8:56 AM Links to this post

"hey whats going on man...im in a tough spot..
me and my ex broke up around a month ago because she felt guilty having feelings for one of her ex's. Yet every night she still calls and every weekend she still wants to hang out...and every time she says she still has feelings for me and she loves me...i really dont want to get over her but i need to cause all it feels like is shes keeping me around incase her ex hurts her again(hes went out with her like 4 times and hurt her) and ya idk wha to do"

hey, I know exactly how you feel. Is there any way you can visit my site and sign up for a session? - I'll call you and give you the key strategies and power kick you need right now - can you do that?

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posted by vitalcoach  # 8:24 AM Links to this post

 What you must absolutely know about breakups - 8 min 

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posted by vitalcoach  # 7:57 AM Links to this post

"GREAT ADVICE!!!!! God I wish I had seen this about 10 months ago."

No comment ;)

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posted by vitalcoach  # 6:55 AM Links to this post

"I broke up with my girlfriend three weeks ago and were in a year and a half relationship. She told me three weeks ago that we were on a ""break"" and that its the best for us atm. She then told everyone that we had broken up...but she never told me or gave me any ""closure"" so to speak. Why cant she talk to me about it?? We have met up for coffees since then but she doesnt want to talk about it.I really think i deserve closure. What shall I do?? Thanks."

Closure? What would you like to hear?

"A reason why she broke up with me. I just feel really bitter."

I know, it often feels "unfair"...

Well... What do YOU think?

What do you believe are her reasons for breaking up with you?

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posted by vitalcoach  # 5:55 AM Links to this post

 Where to find help when she breaks up - 9 min 

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posted by vitalcoach  # 5:10 AM Links to this post

"My ex left me in a very confusing situation. she claims she still loves me, yet says she wants to explore things for herself. she said that i am "a perfect ring that just does not fit around her finger, but would like me as a necklace". we went out for seven months ans she states that she does not want to date for a while. yet last saturday she told me she exchanged number with a guy, and it was only a week after we broke up. I need to get over her, please help!"

Sorry ro hear that, man!

Look, you might not be aware of that but what you describe is prety typical for a woman behavior after she breaks up with you: She says something and then does the exact opposite.

(And believe me I have seen an coached dozens of guys and break ups situations!)

Why? Many reasons:

- Not lose you totally just in case
- She might not want to hurt you by being too blunt
- It's part of her battle strategy to reclaim her full freedom
- Etc

Yes! you can definitely get your power back in no time but you DO need a battle plan!

If you are serious about getting over her fast, go back to my site (follow the link on my vid) and get the e-book + MP3's!

Work on this material for a week and you will be amazed by the results!

It's everything you need, REALLY!

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posted by vitalcoach  # 3:54 AM Links to this post

"My girlfriend broke up with me after 3 1/2 years on the phone.She felt she needed someone to take care of her and someone who has equal salary of what she makes. I think it also had to with a lack of communication and trust.

It didn't actually happen till Tuesday over the phone when she finally told me the real reason.I'll tell you more some other time,I don't want to get into my situation at the moment. "

"The reason was that she needed someone to take care of her and I couldn't compete with her 20,000 a year compared to my 8.25 an hour."

Yeah... I see. Yes! Difference in social status can be a deal breaker...

Sure, good idea to find answers and the reasons she decides to step out!

It will help you get back on track

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posted by vitalcoach  # 2:45 AM Links to this post

 Why a break up is a battle - 7 min

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posted by vitalcoach  # 1:46 AM Links to this post

"freakin awesome dude! KICK THEIR ASSES MAN! ALPHA MALE ALPHA MALE"

No comment ;) 

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posted by vitalcoach  # 12:46 AM Links to this post

"umm do you no what it means when you meet a girl (while you already have a girlfriend) and she try's so hard to get you to dump your girlfriend for her, like she calls you all the time and she texts you all the time too and then when you do dump your girlfriend for her, she doesn't call as much or pay us much attention? because thats happened to me and now i love her and don't no what to do :S"

well, once the challenge of fighting to get you is gone, part of the thrill disappears as well. Having to fingt for you when you have a girl friend keeps forces her to be at her best - Once she has you, she takes you for granted  

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posted by vitalcoach  # 11:46 PM Links to this post

 How to step out of the break up zone - 8 min

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posted by vitalcoach  # 10:47 PM Links to this post

"she is callin me more now than wen we were goin out... i dont understand any of this and she still hasnt gotten another bf but she is still comin to my house every day after school"

It means she wants you as a friend but not as a lover  

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posted by vitalcoach  # 9:49 PM Links to this post

http://vitalcoaching.com/breakupformen.htm Getting over a breakup - From couple to single - Why a breakup is an emotional challenge - What you need to solve a life crisis - 3 key areas in which your life is challenged - what it takes to get your power when she breaks up

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posted by vitalcoach  # 8:49 PM Links to this post

 If one of your friends just got dumped - 11 min

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posted by vitalcoach  # 7:48 PM Links to this post

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Break up advice! - Here is your battle plan - Why it is an emotional battle - What you need to win - This are real power recovery experiences! - Get this e-book and MP3 audios - Work on it for a week at least!

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posted by vitalcoach  # 6:48 PM Links to this post