[Dating - For men] NOTES

4 indicators of higher value - IHV

2009-06-23T03:02:00.000-07:00

Preselected by other women
Leader of men
Protector of loved ones
Willingness to emote

Preselection is the most important element you have to trigger

2008-03-11T11:14:00.000-07:00

it takes 7 hours to build enough comfort for sex

2008-03-11T11:13:00.002-07:00

It takes 3 minutes to build attraction

2008-03-11T11:13:00.001-07:00

You have to lock in by the third minute!

2008-03-11T11:12:00.001-07:00

Look like the girl is gamin you

2008-03-11T11:10:00.001-07:00

If you are gaming the girls, no attraction!

When you are preselected by women you have value for any other woman watching

2008-03-11T11:08:00.001-07:00

Lock in position - Practice it!

2008-03-11T11:07:00.001-07:00

Chronology of seduction

2008-03-06T14:22:00.000-08:00

Opening
demonstrating higher value
nagging
Qualify her (what have you got going for you?)
Move
etc

Experiment - Hypnotic script

2008-02-25T02:09:00.000-08:00

Correct me if I am wrong...

Correct me if I am wrong, ok?

I want to tell you something about yourself:

In you, there is this dream of the perfect romantic connection with a man.

You dream about it and it is triggered when you meet the eyes of a man you are attracted to.

This simple glimpse into his eyes, triggers a chaing reaction of thrilling emotions and excitement in you.

You feel totally alive. You start having dreams about that man. You imagine the kisses, his sensual touch on your skin.

In your dreams the fantasy of this reality is totally alive.

Your night is filled with images of sensual moments shared in this vibrant intimacy between your two beings.

Even though, you never spoke directly with him, he is now part totally part of your life and you enjoy it immensely.

You feel like telling your friends, telling everyone, actually!

Even at work, you sometimes find it difficult to focus because the memory of his smile suddenly pops up in your mind.

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Is this good? Yes!

Now, this is a "trance script".

What you just said is hypnotic because it does bring the woman into an inner psace and triggeres her imagination.

Now, the way you say this, you can start fasta nd progressively slow down, until you get into a much slower pace when she can relax.

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Next question:

What do you do or say next?

What is the message you want to give her?

Here we go:

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I am here to help you? - Hummm.....

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These impressions of love feed your being and nothing and no one can take them away from you.

This clear vision of these romantic moments are yours. They are totally strong and grounded in you. Nothing and no one can remove them from your mind.

They are a source of inner pleasure and delight.

being in love is a wonderful feeling and you totally embrace it with trust..

There is no tension in.

You relax in that experience and enjoy it fully.

You are fearless!

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Now, I did value these feeling and gave them strength and power. I did consciously reinforce them in her.

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Now, let's take this even deeper, ok?

You follow me and do what I do.

Look at your beautiful hands and rub them against each other.

Next, touch your face gently.

Now open up with a gentle smile.

This smile open up more until you know it is an unstoppable stream of energy!

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Now, this was the physical anchoring of these emotions

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What to do next?

Do I need to follow up?

What is their agenda?

Do I need to introduce my own agenda? Yes? No?

What is it?

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You now want to connect...

Believe in yourself...

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Life is easy and everything you want is within reach!

You fully trust yourself!

You trust your instincts!

You now evolve within a space of emotional freedom where nothing ever holds you back.

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Now, these are affirmation statements. They are orders and directions!

Next step, get what you want? Or keep the wellness of others in mind?

Here is a potential shift to embarce and bring the well being of everyone in the picture.

It is a bit of a stretch... and feels more natural to stay focused on just her

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You always easily get what you want with love, respect

Why? Because you are totally in tune and synchronized with all forces at play.

You are the center of energies...

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Or...

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You get what you want easily because what you want is what is best not only for you but for everyone you interact with.

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Ok, now, we enter into an area where there are potentially conflicting interests.

Two very clear directions show up:

the first one is individual focused, my goals and my wants at all costs

the second is selfless service and being an agent of change not only for yourself but for others as well...

What is the right choice?

Is it too early for both?

What is the right closure?

Here is what ross jeffries says to a woman in one of his vids when approaching her - Hypnotic seduction

2008-02-25T01:58:00.000-08:00

You are from midwest...

I want to tell you something about yourself:

You make imagery in your mind very vivid

You are smiling because you know I am right...

if you are borded, even if you are looking right at this person, you could be a million miles away (said very slowly looking straight in the eyes with a gentle smile) in your ideal favorite fantasy vacation...

True?

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Comments:

What is surprising with this vid is that she seems already "sold" to him in the moment he comes closer to her and asks her a question.

His confidence is total, no doubt. He knows what is is doing.

Then, the whole hypnotic message...

Does it work?

Sure it works!!!

The results show in her attitude and total openess...

Well.. the presence of the camera might be intimidating as well.

This gives him and edge of power and recognition.

She thinks: he is being filmed, that guy must be important!

Increased social value in her eyes...

Kino escalation - TIP

2007-12-31T02:35:00.000-08:00

That's the steps to build up physical connection, first touching nad, hug, then kiss for instance...

Approaching anxiety - How to kick it once and for all - TIPS

2007-12-23T10:53:00.000-08:00

Simple!

That's the fear of approaching.

There is a simple way to kick that one out forever!

I'll come back and show you soon how to do just that!

http://vitalcoaching.com/datingformen.htm

The key to seduction is to accelerate the emotions - TIP

2007-12-15T03:23:00.000-08:00

The key to seduction is to accelerate the emotions and to give her the feeling that she has known you for longer than she has

Nagging the target - TIP

2007-12-09T03:18:00.000-08:00

disqualify her openly:

"Well that means it probably would never work between us because..."

http://vitalcoaching.com/datingformen.htm

The mind set of overwhelm means defeat! - MISTAKES

2007-12-09T03:13:00.000-08:00

You are overwhelmed when you are not prepared and are feel really attracted to a girl.

It's like talking to a crowd of a thousand people and having to start cracking jokes with no idea of where to start.

the best way to avoid overwhelm is to train before hand.

If you do have a couple of well trained routines, the moment you meet THE challenge, it will seem very easy to open the set with the routine you already practiced or start teasing her

http://vitalcoaching.com/datingformen.htm

Use an opinion opener - TIP

2007-12-09T03:09:00.000-08:00

This is one of the easiest way to open a set:

"What do you think of...."

"Would you agree that...", "Why?"

"My friend believes that... What's your opinion on that?"

http://vitalcoaching.com/datingformen.htm

Choose one opener/routine and practice it all night - TIP

2007-12-09T03:07:00.000-08:00

this will make you super good at opening sets .

You become excellent at delivering that specific routine! You master it!

http://vitalcoaching.com/datingformen.htm

Work on just one or two routines in a night initially - TIP

2007-12-09T03:06:00.000-08:00

This is to keep things really simple!!!

http://vitalcoaching.com/datingformen.htm

Go out with a wing!

2007-12-09T03:04:00.001-08:00

A wing is a wing man. It's a friend who will help the energy going and eventually strengthen or support your moves

Getting in the mood!

2007-12-09T03:00:00.000-08:00

In other terms connecting with the stream! Once you get moving it's easy.

How do you that?

Simple: start talking! with anyone!

When you get talking you get moving.

Once the real challenge comes you are all warmedc up.

Open at least three sets as a warm up routine.

Mater social interaction

2007-12-09T02:58:00.000-08:00

Yes! that's the goal.

More on this coming soon

Opening the set

2007-12-09T02:54:00.001-08:00

This is what happens when you approach a small group of people (2, 3, 4 etc person's set), and you connect with the whole set at once.

In many social situations, that's what you will have to do.

It might be rare to see a woman you are attracted to all by herself.

This means that having the skills to open a set is key!

More on how to do just that coming soon...

Be the most important person in the room

2007-12-08T09:32:00.001-08:00

Choose a skill to develop for the evening

2007-12-08T09:23:00.001-08:00

Coming on all fronts at the same time is challenging.

Ask yourself:

"What is the key quality or skill I need to develop this evening?"

Identify it and focus on that one as a guide line.

For instance:

"Practice being the most important person in the room"

That could be your target for the evening.

Make sure that women perceive you that way and everything you do must reflect that role.

Resistances to play that role?

What if you are with friends and you all have the same target (being the most important person in the room?) - Can it still work? - of course it can!

Any guys who play that role increases his level of attraction because he positions himself as the leader of men.

yes! You can have many leaders in a room.

And no, you don't need to put others down to play that role!