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Suppose that you are an expat living in a foreign country.

You don't speak the language and you moved to this new city for work.

You feel isolated and your social network is limited to a few married couples.

This is it!

What do youdo?

How do you meet women?

You always have lots of options!

The fact that opportunities are rarer doesn't mean that they are not there!

Can you imagine how much fun it is to walk into a shopping mall and try to say to the girl behind the counter in a language you don't speak that your birthday is on 23rd and that you like chocolate!

Here are some ideas:

Learn a few simple teasing sentences and ask girls to correct you! - They love that!
Use the net! - I am sure that the city you are in has an expat community - Log in to your facebook, myspace, meetup, tribe or other networking site and start searching for connections.
Respond to EVERY invitation even if the event is not too exciting for you - Why? Because you never know who you will meet there.
Etc!

You have dozens of strategies you can apply!

The key is to activate your social life and start taking small risks.

No matter how isolated you feel in a new land, the moment you start really looking and MAKE IT YOUR TOP PRIORITY, you will be surprised by how many opportunities appear.

Yes! Make it your top priority.

Thinking about it now and then is not enough!

You need to strategize your social life and follow up on your connections.

Be smart! That one is DEFINITELY within your range!

How frequently can I contact her? - ARTICLE

2009-06-07T07:42:00.001-07:00

I would say that if you contact her more than twice a week, she must already REALLY be into you.

Ideally, especially in the early stages of your connection, contact her once. Have a great date + short follow up text message after that.

Give her space to miss you + fantasize about what she experienced with you.

Imagination is a powerful tool!

The fact that she does not hear from you or see you physically does not mean that your relationship is not growing!

On the contrary!

She can have a great date with you and spend the rest of the week dreaming about the last romantic kiss you shared.

This is NOT about playing games, ok?

If you text her 3 times a day, email, call, you will quickly appear needy!

If you initiated contact once and she responds. Next time, let HER initiate contact and come up with something fun to do.

I got pushy! - Now she pulled back! - ARTICLE

2009-06-07T07:13:00.000-07:00

Suppose that the girl you just started dating does not respond to your expectations:

She has kids and can't meet you for dates as frequently as you would like.
She is VERY busy with work.
She is still divorcing her ex.
She is dating other guys.
She has no intention of comitting to you.
She frequently cancels dates or shows up late.
She does not want to have sex.
Etc.

There are dozens of reasons why a woman could disapoint you.

The key question is: How do you respond?

Is it better to put your foot down and demand that she changes her attitude towards you or is it better to give her all the space she needs and keep living?

As you can imagine the second option is by far the best.

Don't push!

Don't demand!

Don't be needy!

If she cancels dates, stop scheduling them!

If she only gives you one evening every three weeks, have other options! Date other girls!

If she does not want to have sex yet, understand her needs and take small steps towards greater intimacy!

But!... Never be pushy or demanding!

Here is the deal: when you put her under pressure, you limit her!

What do you think will be her emotional reaction?

Retreat of course! Defend her freedom!

When you start dating her, she is NOT giving you the right to tell her what to do, so respect and let her control her life!

When you start being pushy with her, it usually means that you are already too invested in her.

Your expectations are higher than what she can give.

This is why it is SO ESSENTIAL to keep your options open and not committ yourself to someone who is not commited to you.

It makes sense of course!

Tame your passion and redirect your desires rather than getting emotionally hooked on someone you won't fulfill your needs!

Got that?

To your power!

Key dating mistakes guys make with girls - 5 min

2009-05-20T07:06:00.001-07:00

Key dating mistakes guys make with girls - 5 min

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How to gain confidence with girls - FOR GUYS ONLY!

2009-05-17T06:54:00.001-07:00

http://vitalcoaching.com/datingformen.htm

How to gain confidence with girls - Gaining confidence with women - What women expect from you and how to deliver just that! - Why most men fail when approaching girls - How to speak with women without fear - What exactly will seduce her and make her want to come on a date with you - Take charge - She wants to feel your confidence

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How to gain confidence with dating - 5 min

2009-05-14T06:35:00.001-07:00

How to gain confidence with dating - 5 min

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