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What to buy a guy for his birthday - Invite him for something - Movies - Dinner - Cook something for him - Don't overdo it - Guys, what would you like for your birthday? - Gifts - Nice gifts - Birthday party

I want to be number one in his mind! - Challenges of the dating world - Competition - 2 agendas - The game is fair - You are number one if you are the best - Looks - Personality - Radiance - network - personal foundation

Two types of men - 7 min
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Do I turn them off? - 10 min
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Coming on too strong? - Yes! It is a key turn off! - Coming physically too close - Sending too many text messages - Being too loud - Claiming him or behaving as if you are his only friend

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Does it work to be bitchy? - 6 min
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Why do you get attracted to a certain guy - Character - looks - Money - social status - pua world - character - personaliy - what elements? - How to treat you

Answers! - For women who want to be successful with their love life

I don't like the men who are attracted to me - Self defeating - social circle - Internet dating - I want a man who will be a provider - Above 100K limits your options - Harder target - competition

What is your dating style? - 9 min
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"Hi Francisco

I saw your video "Why does he flirt with you? - Is he interested?" and it helps me understand my situation better. So..thanks! I really enjoy listening to that.You're really good at what you're doing!

There's this guy in my office, I just learnt he's married and he's just really nice and friendly with me. The eye contact and everything is just straight flirting, you can tell. I didn't know he's attached and all, and i thought he is interested in me and would want to ask me out. But i guess not, hahaha... That's alright, at least i found out the real deal this early..its not too heart breaking :)

Keep up the good work

Thanks"

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How to get your message through - 11 min
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He says women dont understand men - Battle of the sexes - Being angry at men - Understanding guys - what men think - what women want from men - Sharing ideas - Feed back

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This is an essential question and one of the key challenges women can face out there in the dating world! I did already record a video on this topic some time ago. Here it is: Now, because I had this question sent to me again, I realize that I need now to go deeper so that you really understand what goes on in his mind. The key question is: "why does he ask for my number if he has no intention of following through?" Well he does have the desire to follow through when he asks you for your number. What really happens is that once he has your number and wakes up the following day, he realizes he does not want to follow up or wants to follow up but not straight away There can be various reasons for that:

• Sudden interest loss
• He feels it will be too complicate
• He now "disqualifies" you in his mind for a reason or another.
• He has other priorities
• Etc.

A guys will often ask you for your number simply to have that option.

Getting a girl's number is like a traget to conquer.

Every time a guys gets a girl's number, he feels like it's a small (or big) victory by itself.

Yes! He will sometimes act in the dating scene as a predator and the action of conquering and seducing is thrilling by itself.

Once the target has been reached, it is part of the thrill which is gone.

He will then "hunt" for more numbers rather than following up with the ones he has.

Why? Because what is more challenging and "harder" to conquer gives him a stronger kick.

Have you ever been to the gym?

If you do some power building, go on the tread mill or the cross trainer, what is the target you select?

Is it t he one that requires little effort and does not challenge you?

Or do you go for a target you feel more challenged by?

If you know the outcome and you know it is too easy for you, you might lose interest, right?

Guys like adrenaline rush.

They sometimes find it super challenging to ask for a girl's number but confront themselves with this challenge because it gives them and energy kick to do so.

Why do people go and watch thrillers?

Because of the emotional kick or energy boost, right?

Well, guys and their dating challenges often function in the same way.

Once the main challenge is mastered (getting your number) the rest can feel much easier and almost downhill for many guys.

Now, I am of course not saying that this is the case in real life.

Having a successfull and exciting date with someone can be as challenging as getting a girl's number for a guy.

But yes! If you ask guys:

"What is the most challenging step in dating?"

My guess is that most men will say:

"Approach a girl, have a nice conversation and get her number"

This means that they are in the "approach" stage of their courting behavior.

When you have a girl's number, you already move into the "comfort" area.

There is a higher potential for multiple dates with the same person, relationship and so on.

So, many guys will choose to stay in this "approach" zone because they find it more exciting than meeting the same girl multiple times.

It has to do with mystery as well.

Once they get your number, it is part of the mystery which is unveiled and they might lose interest.

By the way, this works same way for both men and women.

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So you got it now, right?

For many men the thrill and excitement is higher before they get your number than after.

Does it mean that you must not give them your number if you want them to stay interested?

We'll check that one in a coming post!

There are a few strategies you can apply that keeps guys interested and thrilled to see you even after they have your number...

Coming soon...

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How to meet more men - Go online - Respond to invitations - Nights out with your friends - Don't rely on office flirt only - Follow up on your contacts - Activate your social life

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How to find a man online - Internet dating - A dating site is like a cafe or a club, some are nice, some are not - Signup for a few dating sites - See dating sites as a training ground for your dating skills - Keep it simple, playful, sexy, flirty and light! - Practice network dating - Go deeper with the guys you are really attracted to

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He wanted to have sex! - Way too fast for me! - Dating boundaries - Dating challenges - Rejection and boundaries - No one owns you! - You are in control of your life - Learn to say no! - If a guys does not respect you, that's not a good sign

Are you getting confused by a guy's mixed signals? - 10 min
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Keys to finding the right man - Network dating - Interact with many men at first - Little expectations - Why you don't want to emotionally commit yourself in the early stages of dating - After a few weeks, focus more on your top choices - Keep your options open

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Guys, what kind of girls do you prefer? - cultural differences - Same in the west - Dating within the same culture or race - What type of girls do you prefer - What is your cultural background - Turn ons - turn offs

I have trouble finding nice guys - Many guys! - Do you disqualify 90 percent of them? - Less picky - You dont have to marry him - Prince charming - Light date - get used to a guys imperfection - Disqualifying by fear - It is challenging to date - Why you see flaws first - Disqualifying them is a way of not taking risks

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Yes! Guys like kind girls - Here is why - Power balance in dating - Guys do like respect, love, kindness, fun, sexiness, etc. - Unsolicited kindness - Be kind when you don't need to - Don't go out of your way or overdo it - Multiple facets of your personality

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How to seduce him - Keep it simple - Focus on fun, quality time and being sexy - Turn offs for guys - Be easy to relate to - Yes! Ad edge, playfullness and challenge

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How to increase attraction after a first date - 8 min
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How to approach men - Be fearless! - An opportunity to have fun and enjoy! - here is the easiest way to connect with guys - Men are open to know you, really! - Engage and connect - Yes! be fun to be with

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Dont have sex at a first date - The "emotional attachment" hormone gets released after intercourse - Intensity and attraction drop after sex - The after sex effect - Safe sex - Build up attraction for a few dates - 1 to 3 months courtship - creates complicity and emotional security - Focus on light intimacy instead

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First date conversation starters - What to avoid - Tease, flirt, play, sexy and fun! - Be interested - Avoid politics, religion, exes, problems at work or personal issues - Leave on a high - Keep a first relatively short 1 to 2 hours max - Dont have sex - Light intimacy

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How to connect with men - What guys really like - Play the game - Fun + Sexy! - Emotional independence - No undigested emotions - unsolved issues - What does it mean to play the game? - Love men and the company of men

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You are naturally good at dating - 7 min
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Be in love! - Be fearless! - Can I tell you something about yourself? - Your perfect romantic dream - Triggereed when you look into a man's eyes - Pleasure of being love - Enjoy the experience - No one can take that away from you

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I kissed my best friend - Now it is awkward between us - Go back to the way things were before