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Sep 29, 2007

Where to start when you want more from life - MP3 - 21 min - AUDIO

All MP3 audios on wake up your power are available here
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More energy! – MP3 - 13 min - AUDIO

All MP3 audios on wake up your power are available here
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Wake up your power! - MP3 - 5 min - AUDIO

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Derren Brown "instant conversion" part 1

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Derren Brown - "Paying with Paper"

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Sep 28, 2007

What NLP can be used for + Ethical ideas - IDEA

NLP can be used for so many purposes!!!

Here are some of them:
  • Yourself - Your mind! - Master your own speech patterns. Be more aware of what you say. Shift key patterns into positive ones.
  • Coaching and therapy - Helping others get rid of emotional blockages and more.
  • Synergic communication - With friends, family, professional
  • Sales - Having greater influence
  • Subliminal advertising - getting your message out
  • Etc.

Okay!

As long as you help others, yourself or create harmony around you, the positive impact of NLP skills is obvious.

Now, when we enter into sales and advertising, you need to very careful. Is this okay???

You might say that this is how advertising and marketing works, right?

The ethical basis for using NLP in the fields of sales and advertising is quite unclear. It seems that there is no rule.

Now, imagine for a second that you have total power over what prospects think and that you can get them to buy anything, even what they don't need at all.

What about casinos, drugs, porn industry and more!!!

What if these industries did have the power to get to you, your friends and family and get them to do things which are self destructive, put them into huge debts, etc.

What do you say now???

I'll come back to that later!

Essential questions!!!

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Positive speech! - TECHNIQUE - TIP

This is one area where you have massive impact in your client's lives.

Practice positive speech patterns at all times!

Friends, family, business settings, etc.

Listen to what you say and listen as well to the real impact your words have.

Your speech is an exilarating flow of energy!

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Make it yours! - TIP

The simplest way to learn NLP techniques is to take one technique you feel connected with and make it part of you.

You practice it for a week, identifying situations where it can be used and really make it your own.

That's it!

Fast and direct!

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Derren Brown - 700+ VIDEOS - LINK



NLP videos - LINK



Eye Paterns - NLP - TECHNIQUES



Top Left:: Visual Creation
Center Left:: Audio Creation
Bottom Left: Tactile (imagining a felt sensation)

Top Right: Visual Remember
Center Right: Audio Remember
Bottom Right: Recalling a numerical value (your phone number)

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Took this test! - Did not work for me at all! - None of my answers matched! - TEST

Took this test! - Did not work for me at all! - None of my answers matched!

Do these tests and find out if Derren can control your thoughts.

What about you?

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Mind control - Derren Brown - TV - TO CHECK



Derren Brown - LINK

http://www.derrenbrown.co.uk/

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Subliminal persuasion - BOOK

Subliminal persuasion? Mind control?

http://www.subliminalpersuasion.co.uk

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Derren Brown shows how mediums work - VIDEO

What about that???

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Derren Brown - Subliminal Advertising - VIDEO

One more?

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Derren Brown NLP - VIDEO

What do you think fo that????

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Sep 27, 2007

10 of the coolest things - E-book - TO CHECK

10 of the coolest things

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NLP cards - Yes? - No?



Parts integration

Parts Integration is based on the idea that different aspects of ourselves are in conflict due to different perceptions and beliefs. 'Parts integration' is the process of negotiating with and integrating the disparate aspects of the self by identifying and then negotiating with the separate parts to achieve resolution of internal conflict.

Successful parts negotiation occurs by listening to and providing opportunities to meet the needs of each part, and adequately addressing their interests so that they are each satisfied with the desired outcome.

It often involves negotiating with the conflicting parts of a person to achieve resolution. Parts integration appears to be modeled on 'parts' from family therapy and has similarities to ego-state therapy in psychoanalysis in that it seeks to resolve conflicts that constitute a "family of self" within a single individual.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

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Ecology and congruency

Ecology in NLP deals with the relationship between a client and their natural, social and created environments and how a proposed goal or change might relate to their relationships and their environment. It is a frame within which the desired outcome is checked against the consequences in the client's life and relationships. Like gestalt therapy a goal of NLP is to help the client choose goals and make changes that achieve a sense of personal congruency and integrity with personal and other aspects of the client's life.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

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Six step reframe

An example of reframing is found in the six-step reframe which involves distinguishing between an underlying intention and the consequent behaviors for the purpose of achieving the intention by different and more successful behaviors. It is based on the notion that there is a positive intention behind all behaviors, but that the behaviors themselves may be unwanted or counterproductive in other ways. NLP uses this staged process to identify the intention and create alternative choices to satisfy that intention.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

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Techniques - Anchoring

Anchoring is a NLP term for the process by which memory recall, state change or other responses become associated with (anchored to) some stimulus, in such a way that perception of the stimulus (the anchor) leads by reflex to the anchored response occurring. The stimulus may be quite neutral or even out of conscious awareness, and the response may be either positive or negative. Anchors are capable of being formed and reinforced by repeated stimuli, and thus are analogous to classical conditioning.

Additionally NLP holds that anchors can be deliberately set and triggered verbally, through touch, or other unique stimulus, to assist self or others access 'resourceful' or other target states.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming

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Milton Model



Persuasion uses of NLP



Neuro linguistic programming (NLP) - Main page



Meta model

The meta-model in Neuro-linguistic programming (or meta-model of therapy) is a heuristic set of questions designed to specify information, challenge and expand the limits to a person's model of the world. It responds to the distortions, generalizations, and deletions in the speaker's language.[1] The meta model forms the basis of Neuro-linguistic programming as developed by then assistant professor of linguistics, John Grinder and Richard Bandler.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Meta_model_(NLP)

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NLP has been described by its creators as "the study of the structure of subjective experience"

Subjectivity is distinguished from objectivity in both science and philosophy. Objectivity attempts to be the study of "reality". Subjectivity by contrast is focused on how people experience and conceive reality.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principles_of_NLP

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Behind every behavior is a positive intention

This is a model taken from Virginia Satir's belief system, and means that whatever a person does, they are in fact attempting to fulfill some positive intention (of which they may not be aware). It assumes that the current behaviour exhibited by a person represents the best choice available to them at the time. Generating alternatives from this point of view is thought by NLP proponents to be a useful way of helping people to change unwanted or undesirable behaviours.
In a similar vein, psychiatrist R. D. Laing has argued that the symptoms of what is normally called mental illness are just comprehensible reactions to impossible demands that society and particularly family life places on some sensitive individuals. (Main article: Positive and negative (NLP))

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principles_of_NLP

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The map is not the territory

"NLP epistemology" follows Alfred Korzybski (1933) and Gregory Bateson's (1972, 1979) postulations that there is no such thing as "objective experience." The subjective nature of our experience never fully captures the objective world. In the view of NLP, whether or not there is an objective absolute "reality", individual people in fact do not in general have access to absolute knowledge of reality, but in fact only have access to a set of beliefs they have built up over time, about reality.

Significance - It is considered crucially important when working with people to focus on the understanding that their beliefs about reality and their awareness of things (the "map") are not reality itself or everything they could be aware of (the "territory"). Put another way, NLP does not claim that one is working with reality, ie the "territory", but only ever with peoples subjective perceptions and beliefs about reality, ie some or other "map". (Main article: Map-territory relation)

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Principles of NLP



If something can be done effectively and ecologically in ten minutes, don't spend an hour doing it

NLP is critical of the belief that many sessions are needed for some problems. It is supportive of brief therapy and brief intervention
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principles_of_NLP

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Conscious understanding is not always needed

unlike traditional therapies, effective change, and/or learning at an unconscious level, are emphasised over and above conscious understanding. According to NLP, change does not always require interpretation and analysis, it requires development of ones map of beliefs about the world and oneself, so that what was previously inaccessible becomes possible, and this can be effected in very many ways. Thus according to Haley, Erickson was notable amongst psychiatrists, because he would respond to metaphor with other metaphors, rather than by attempting to "interpret".

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principles_of_NLP

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Good NLP is 90% information gathering and testing, and 10% changework

It is claimed by practitioners that a sufficient understanding and appropriate experience will often make clear how a situation can be better helped, even if this takes considerable time, and so a practitioner is continually trying an approach, observing feedback, forming hypotheses, and testing their understanding with the client. In the end, formal changework (ie, change techniques as opposed to exploratory techniques) is often a minor component compared to the benefit to the client through good exploration.

Note that the divide between exploration and formal change is an artificial one: good exploration will encourage spontaneous re-evaluation and change, and changework is valued and not considered a 'failure', even if it does not progress the situation, because it is still a valuable source of information.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principles_of_NLP

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Sep 22, 2007

Create peace? - Solve conflicts? - How? - TIP

Okay,

There are two levels to check:
  • The first one is the world - Peace on a world scale.
  • The second one is your world. Your microcosm. What you can directly influence, your family, friends, community, business, etc.

If you want to build peace and solve conflicts, it is a good idea to start small scale.

How do you do that? Your practice active respect!

Here are a couple of examples:

  • If you disagree with your lover or partner: "It is okay to disagree. While I would tackle this issue in another way, I do respect your opinion..."
  • If a friend tries to force you to do something you don't want to: "I appreciate the fact that you want to educate me on that but I was born with the right to choose for myself. Don't be offended if I make my own choices..."
  • If you see someone wearing a funny hat: "That's not something I would wear, but I won't stop respecting you for that..."
  • Etc.

The solving key is usually respect or tolerance.

There is a always a strategy that solves almost instantly any "internal" conflict you can face.

Find the right mind set or attitude so that the conflict you face is cleared.

With some practice, you quickly become an expert at solving conflicts in your own microcosm.

This is an essential stepping stone before you can head for greater, large scale peace challenges.

http://vitalcoaching.com/wakeupyourpower.htm

To your peaceful power!

vitalcoach

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Sep 13, 2007

Go to battle to win! - ARTICLE

It is pretty amazing to realize that the key quality you need to win any battle is fighting power!

Now, this is not about hurting or attacking anyone.

The battle is internal and the victory is a mastery of systems and aspects of your life and being.

Victories are in your mind!

They are expressed through mastery of tools and environments.

But the first key victories you can win have to do with mastering your own being, emotions, thoughts and actions.

The challenges you might face have to do with not really having a sense of control over what happens in your life.

You might feel victim to events and circumstances and the first step is to shift that perception.

The moment you wake up and decide to gain back control over your life, everything shifts.

The first step is a decision and a connection with an energy you feel waking up from within.

The second step is action.

Victory happens because your action is different.

Now, it would be nice if you could sit back and control outcomes simply with mind focus, right?

You imagine mastering events without lifting a finger.

Well, it does not happen that way (at least not yet), I can tell you, and I have been meditating a lot!

You need to take action and master that part of your life.

It starts with a little step.

Then, you follow up and suddenly, you see yourself walking towards new life targets!

It is thrilling and feels extremely good!

It is thrilling because you feel a new power wind in your sails.

More on this coming soon :)

http://vitalcoaching.com/wakeupyourpower.htm

To your power!

vitalcoach

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Where to start when you want more from life - MP3 - 21 min - AUDIO
More energy! – MP3 - 13 min - AUDIO
Wake up your power! - MP3 - 5 min - AUDIO
Derren Brown "instant conversion" part 1
Derren Brown - "Paying with Paper"
What NLP can be used for + Ethical ideas - IDEA
Positive speech! - TECHNIQUE - TIP
Make it yours! - TIP
Derren Brown - 700+ VIDEOS - LINK
NLP videos - LINK
Eye Paterns - NLP - TECHNIQUES
Took this test! - Did not work for me at all! - None of my answers matched! - TEST
Mind control - Derren Brown - TV - TO CHECK
Derren Brown - LINK
Subliminal persuasion - BOOK
Derren Brown shows how mediums work - VIDEO
Derren Brown - Subliminal Advertising - VIDEO
Derren Brown NLP - VIDEO
10 of the coolest things - E-book - TO CHECK
NLP cards - Yes? - No?
Parts integration
Ecology and congruency
Six step reframe
Techniques - Anchoring
Milton Model
Persuasion uses of NLP
Neuro linguistic programming (NLP) - Main page
Meta model
NLP has been described by its creators as "the study of the structure of subjective experience"
Behind every behavior is a positive intention
The map is not the territory
Principles of NLP
If something can be done effectively and ecologically in ten minutes, don't spend an hour doing it
Conscious understanding is not always needed
Good NLP is 90% information gathering and testing, and 10% changework
Create peace? - Solve conflicts? - How? - TIP
Go to battle to win! - ARTICLE


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