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Yes!

If you need a bit of space and extra freedom, simply talk about it with your partner, explain why you need it and take it.

The fact that you are in a relationship does not mean that you have to give up your personal base.

You stay an individual even if you function in a relationship and sometimes, this individual needs to recharge, find back energy and inspiration.

While this might be slightly challenging for your couple, you don't need to give up on yourself and sacrifice your life in the name of the couple's unit.

You don't need to give up on your couple either! A week break is not the end! It is a transition.

Yes! do reassure your partner and tell them exactly what is going on and that you will be back soon.

Pu it this way: taking a bit of distance (like taking a trip by yourself or with some friends) could save your marriage and boost again the fun and pleasure you have to be in it.

It is often by taking some distance that you realize the value of what you have.

This is why taking some diatsnce might be a good idea if you feel this is what you need.

To your couple!

vitalcoach

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Of course not! :)

There are so many steps you can take and those ones are the ones you want to try first!

What are these steps?

• Dive in it with your partner even if you don't really know where to start. Say something like: "I think we face a challenge in our relationship... What do you feel we can do about it?".
• Take some distance to find yourself again. Yes! It is okay!
• Recreate space to protect your couple. Especially if you have little time for each other.
• And so much more!

Your being always knows a possible answer to your challenge.

What you need is to focus on it and start taking steps.

It is often this action which is missing.

Keeping your couple exciting is a skill!

If it does not happen by itself, it is okay! It is even normal!

Some of the challenges you face in your relationship appear in your life for the first time.

Think about it:

Where you ever confronted with the exact challenge you face right now?

What does it mean?

It means that you often need to design a solution for it and ad the skills which are missing.

It can have to do with you, with your partner or with both.

The truth is that you have many potential solutions you can explore to ad to your couple (or your own life) what is missing.

To your couple!

vitalcoach

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Passion sometimes dies out because of comfort and stress!

Your couple is simply submitted to too many pressures and there is little time and energy left to feed your sex life.

What does this mean?

First, that you need to make time and nurture your love life like you would nurture a garden with flowers which need care.

Your sex life is very precious and there is no reason to let it go or forget about it!

Many couples simply let it die out because they have no clear strategy on how to tackle that specific challenge.

It doesn't have to be that way!

It is not complicate to reawaken your love!

You only need to play the game and put it higher in your set of priorities.

If your sex life gets some attention only once you did everything else, that's a pity, right?

In another set of posts, we will check exactly what actions you can take for passion and intimacy to be reawaken in your couple!

Take care

vitalcoach

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