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How to be a kinder person - Be nicer to others - Love everyone! - Protect yourself - Change! - Recondition your mind - Practice active kindness - Open up - Compliment - Validate people

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Don't take action to prove them anything - You simply recognize their possible negative reaction and follow up with what you were planning to do.

You don't do it for them, you do it for yourself.

For instance, if you arrive at a social event and you notice a few people staring at you or judging you, make it your point to connect with as many women/people as you can, being super friendly and approachable.

The key is to not let these people's doubts or judgements stop you ever!

makes sense right?

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When you face other people's judgements or feel insecure, it is always a power battle between you and them.

The only way to win is to increase your power base and not let these attacks stop you.

People attack you if they feel an opening, the moment you are strong, they stop bothering you.

So, when you feel a negative thought rising, you simply don't let it grow!

You don't let it expand!

You tackle it with the opposite mind set.

A negative thought is:

"You can't do it"

The opposite is

"I can do it"

You are the center of your life and if you don't let your own doubts crawl in your mind, you win the battle.

Any time you recognize fear or doubts and you know you could step back if you negatively respond to this fear, move forward instead and don't let doubts stop you.

Your winning strategy is forward action.

People will know they can't stop you when they see you systematically moving forward when they project their doubts on you.

The more you hesitate or doubt, the more you let them stop you.

The more you take proactive action the more you prove anyone that you have no fear.

You can apply this is any situation: job, dating, social life, etc.

So, how can you use any objection to make you stronger?

You use that challenge as an opportunity to grow.

The more proactive action you take, the stronger you become.

You can't build muscle if there is no resistance, right?

With mind power it is the same.

You don't build character if you face no challenge.

Does that make sense?

What is your conclusion?

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In my experience it takes one month of practice to get familiar with a new mindset and 3 months to totally intergrate it.

The best way to go faster is to practice a lot without being too attached to the immediate result.

It is a bit like going to the gym. You get results by building skills and power on that level.

If you focus on it and make it your top priority, you will have no problem being at 90% to 100% of your true potential.

Don't ever let rejection, doubts or hesitations stop you, ok?

You now know what the target is and all it takes is focus, consistency and some determination

Labels: social power

• Smile + Be friendly!
• Be 100% rejection proof! - Don't let rejection put you down ever!
• Be super confident, not arrogant! - this one is for not putting yourself above others - Behave more like an equal rather than being superior - You can as well do that by validating and complimenting people very easily
• Be ougoing! - Engage! - Connect!
• Be more social and caring!

Labels: social power