Sometimes your partner will do something that really stimulates a whole new flow of sensations all over your body!

At another moment they might touch you in a way which is not exactly nice.

What do you do?

Do you share your feelings on the spot?

If it's something nice you can of course!

Now, when they are engaged into tantric play, partners might not be open to be educated on something they could do differently.

The best time to give your partner any feed back is the following day or even a couple of days later.

You can say things like:

"It really works for me when you touch me that way"

or

"That created some pain..."

or

"There is something I would like you to try next time if you are open for it..."

Your words will tell them exactly what works for you and what doesn't.

Sometimes, your partner might believe they are touching you in a way you like when in fact you can't stand it!

So to avoid confusion, tell them, share, offer feed back and be open to receive it as well.

It is one of the essential keys to keep on progressing together.

The key is to give feed back when your partner is open for it.

If what you have to say is challenging, warn them and ask them if it is a good moment.

Timing!

Positive feed back is of course much easier to give :)

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Entering the "tantric field" can be very challenging for many.

Why?

Because it unleashes life force in your system.

It is like jumping in a fresh mountain stream and being cleared with new energy.

Yes! Extra life force can be disturbing when you are not used to it.

It can create slight discomfort because it really changes your mind and emotions.

Opening a clear channel of energy between you and someone else means that you get very close to each other.

You see each other without veils.

You need to increase your level of trust and feel strong even though you are totally open.

When you are that open, you might feel vulnerable.

The trick is to be open without losing your power.

That's the challenge!

You can connect on a very intimate level with someone (I don't necessarily mean physical intimacy) without having to feel vulnerable.

Makes sense, right?

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Connect!

This is one of the most direct expression of tantric sex.

In fact there is no sexual expression in it anymore. It is a pure energy connection between you and someone else.

This happens when your life force is awake and flowing.

When you meet someone, there is always a potential exchange of life force, joy and energy.

It happens when you don't hide yourself or don't fear.

When you hold back your energy, it stays unfulfilled.

When you unleash, you connect without pressure or effort.

You notice that energy exchange is the core of that connection.

The key is to unleash and go deeper than the day to day level of communication.

You remove fears or walls and stand "naked" on an energy level.

Of course, your personality is still there. Your desires are still there.

What changes is that there is an extra octave of energy participating in your being and in that exchange.

When this happens you unleash a whole new set of life potentials in the way you relate to others.

Now, your tantric power is an energy you need to master.

When you master it, you generate it, exchange it or direct it at will.

It stays in your being flowing without major effort because it has become your natural state.

Your inner channels are clear and open.

No unigested emotional blocks!

It flows!

You are in harmony with yourself and the planet.

You connect with others in a way which is super effective.

The result is a high level of joy and energy in everything you do.

Magical! Empowering for you and for all those you meet!

More on this coming soon :)

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Here is another simple way to establish a tantric/energy connection with others.

Simply establish eye contact and smile to as many people as you can. Try it out! You will see what happens.

The best is to practice it frequently for short periods of time (5-10 min). It takes a few weeks of practice to really master this technique and be able to do it naturally. In the beginning it takes some focus but the connections can be amazing!

This is not exactly tantric sex but the energy exchange process is very similar. You can connect very deep with someone you just saw for a couple seconds just by looking straight into their eyes.

Don't get attached to your experience.

The intention is free love!

This is like the "free hugs" experiment.

It really works at generating energy exchange between total strangers.

The result? Only one way to find out: try it!

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Most fears or taboos you have in your mind are the result of past conditioning.

When you check it out, you often can't even trace why something is taboo.

A taboo is a moral limit.

Some of these taboos or moral boundaries are still needed to protect society.

These boundaries can sometimes be helpful.

Now, in what concerns tantric sex, when you start exploring, most taboos are useless. It is like putting a fence in your mind and limiting your sexual expression without reason.

Sexual liberation means exactly that: removing what you no longer need.

Think of it:

• Why would sex be a shame or taboo?
• Why is it offensive to see a woman's breast on TV?
• Why would it be taboo to talk about your sexual experiences with some friends?
• Why is it taboo to be naked on the beach?
• Why would it be taboo to see a couple having intercourse?
• Etc.

Does it hurt you morally? Why?

How would you feel if this moral limit was no longer there?

Would you feel more free? Would it liberate you on a certain level?

My role here is certainly not to tell you what is right or wrong. You need to choose for yourself.

If you notice taboos, shame or guilt areas in the way you express your sexuality, simply ask yourself:

Do I need this taboo in my mind or is it time for it to go?

If you notice that you no longer need it and would feel more free without it, take action as if the taboo was no longer there. Consciously cross the limit and see how it feels.

Our lives are experiments! :)

Aim for sexual mastery :)

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These are all substances you can use to enhance pleasure and explore new sensations:

• Sensual massage oils

There is a good brand in the "body shop". You can as well find them in most new age shops. Get a bottle and cover your chest with it before you robb your bodies against each other. If you are a woman, use this oil as well to massage your partner's lingam. It definitely increases his pleasure and gives you a whole new avenue to stimulate his sexual power.

• Olive oil

Use in a moderate way. Try it first to see if you like the smell and feeling.

• Body milk

An excellent way to care for each other's bodies. Massage the breasts or chest, belly back legs, inner leg, feet. You can as well cover your whole body with it and go into embrace and even intercourse while rubbing your bodies against each other.

• Yogurt

You can use it in small quantities, poor it on a woman's breast to leak. You can as well poor some on a man's lingam to leak as well. If you are up to it, take a liter of liquid yogurt and shower with it while massaging each other's body. It's refreshing and very purifying.

• Clay

Another amazing substance. You can buy a package of clay for internal or external use. You can use as well art clay with lots of water. If you are lucky, you can as well find clay in nature for instance on a river bed and cover your body with it while naked in nature.

All these substances have the power to ad a new dimension to your tantric sensual experience. Dare to explore, play with them and don't forget to let me know if you find a new one I did not mention yet, ok? :)

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• Get some sensual massage oils
• add candels and incense
• Prepare a special meal and offer to eat it naked
• Etc.

There are dozens of steps you can take which will increase the sensuality between the two of you.

The idea is to increase sensuality so that your tantric sex experience is deeper and more pleasurable on many levels.

This gives a wider experience body to your tantric sex exploration

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