Home  Login  Your account  Support  

How to get your power back after he breaks up

The key strategies you want to get your life back!

Test drive

Get the full e-book - 100 pages of dynamite geared towards one single goal: help you get your full power back after he breaks up

Instant access!

30 days money back guarantee

How to get over your ex - Watch this!

MP3 Audios

Videos

Articles

Yes! Your complete "Power back" system includes now E-book + Audios + Videos + + Articles + Forum + News + More!

News/Blog

Forum

Here is what is included

The goal of this material is very clear!

Give you all the tools you need to turn a break up into a life victory!

If your boyfriend or husband left you, this is the exact set of strategies you want!

In fact, what I give you is much more than a set of strategies!

It is a complete winning system to give you your life back!

And yes! It is very simple and easy to use!

It literally takes 5 minutes to get it!

It is written in plain and simple language!

It only takes 30-60 minutes to go through this material!

No complex concepts!

It is packed with power and energy!

We could spend days discussing concepts and ideas about break ups and guess what? It would not help you much!

You want practical tools! What you need are very specific new strategies to deal with key break up challenges!

Here are some of the situations I cover in depth and give you new refreshing strategies for:

• What are the key strategies to get your full power back?

• How to shift your mind from victim to winner.

• Why he might take too much place in your mind and how to "kick" him out of it.

• Why a break up is a battle for power and what to do to win.

• What if he calls you? Is it wrong to answer?

• What about meeting him? Is it wrong to meet?

• If you want to see him, how often should you meet?

• Does "No contact" really help?

• Is there a chance of you two getting back together?

• Why you might feel pain right now and how to get rid of it.

• What about guilt?

• How to let go of the dream and create a new thrilling vision for your life.

• How to react if he is dating someone else.

• What to do if he calls you every day?

• How to really get over him. What it exactly means.

• Why anger and frustration are okay and how to make sure they don't negatively impact on your life.

• How to easily make new friends and expand your social circle.

• Why staying away from alcohol and drugs is so essential.

• Is it okay to jump into a rebound relationship straight after your break up? Or should you wait? How long?

• Key strategies to stay healthy and avoid a self destructive spiral

• What about colleagues or team mates? Should you discuss you break up with them?

• Why??!!! How to find answers to your key break up questions.

• Was this relationship a mistake? What you must know about relationship cycles.

• The invisible story. Why you might still dream or think about him.

• How to release emotional pain and feel free again.

• Sexual needs. What are the best ways to respond to them now.

• Should you be friends with your ex? Can it really work?

• Yes! You can live without him! Here is why.

• How to empower your personal base and gain back control of your life.

• Why you want a coherent strategy to win this battle.

• You are not a victim! You are a winner! Here is why.

• And more!

Here are the some of the top questions this material will answer for you:

• How to wake up your power and find new sources of energy in you!

• What to tell him if he says you still have a chance.

• What is the first break up trap and how to avoid it.

• What to do if you asked him to leave but he keeps coming back to you.

• What if you must work with him every day.

• You did exactly what he wanted! How come he still broke up with you?

• What is the best and most direct way to reconnect with yourself?

• What exact role does a break up play in your long term destiny line?

• Why it is essential to remove all traces of his presence.

• How to easily reactivate your social life.

• What are the many sides of a break up and why you need to know about them.

• What are the exact keys you need to win a break up challenge.

• What you need to know about your energy and how he can steal it from you.

• What is the "no contact" rule and what exactly happens if you break it?

• How to deal with text messages and other ways he finds to get to you.

• Why it is essential to never discuss your battle plan with the enemy.

• What are your fighting skills and how to wake them up.

• What did you learn from your break up? - Why you want to find answers before jumping in a new relationship.

• Yes! It is possible to be single and totally happy! Here is why.

• Why he will always call you just when you get your life back on track.

• Why you want to stop talking about him.

• What is a psychic gap and why a break up is an emotional challenge you can win.

• Why did he leave? The exact reasons why men break up and how to avoid it happening again in the future.

• And more!

Yes!

• Why you have to be very careful when talking about reconciliation

• Why it is a bad idea to have sex with your ex

• I don't really want to speak with him - What if he calls me or runs into me?

• Why it is challenging to move on before you find answers

• I want him to feel what I'm going through, does that make me a bad person?

• What hurts me the most is that he now tells me he never loved me!

• What you must do in the first week after your break up

• What if you don't want to completely lose him forever from your life?

• Should you just cut off all contact with him?

• I was doing great until I accepted to see him again

• How to get over your ex? - Defend yourself!

• Give me a reason why I should not ask him back ever

• Why your friends get tired of hearing about your break up

• Why a break up is an emotional challenge and what to do about it

• What you can do if you just broke up

• Why suffer longer than needed from your break up?

In other terms, what are the key mind sets you need to wake up in you? These are survival strategies. They are not optional. If you don't apply them, your are done!

• What are the top 8 strategies to win a break up challenge?

• How to shift from victim to winner role and why so many women fail in doing just that.

• Why hope of getting back together can keep you stacked. Why getting back together does not work in 95% of the cases.

• Why you don't need him! You will discover exactly how to gain a new sense of emotional independence and enjoy it immensely.

• Why you will meet new men! The simple pathways to reconnect with the dating world and succeed with men.

• How to stay away from alcohol and drugs. How to avoid the self destructive spiral (snow ball effect) and limit your challenge to its real size!

• How to forgive yourself and really move on. Why feelings of guilt or shame can hold you back and how to clear them forever. Why you owe him nothing.

• Why left over emotional, jealousy or controlling patterns could stop you from moving on. Why what he does is no longer your business and how to accept it!

• How to keep your two feet on the ground and shift from romantic dream to reality. How to face, accept and embrace reality and focus on the future rather than the past.

Key strategies for divorce situations!

These are extra strategies focused on divorce challenges. A divorce has two sides: the emotional one and the legal one.

Here are some extra strategies to deal with more practical and legal aspects if you are in a divorce situation:

• Two sides of a divorce.

• Special strategies for divorce situations.

• Key divorce pitfalls.

• What if you have children together.

• Splitting assets.

• What are your rights?

• Can you be friends with your ex?

• How to relate constructively to your ex.

• And more!

Key steps to reconnect with the dating world and be successful with dating new men

A whole area of my site is dedicated to dating success for women.

This whole dating success program includes videos, e-books, MP3's and more. You will receive total and unlimited access to all this material in just a minute, once your get your break up package.

Here are some of the key situations I cover in this dating success area:

• How to strike a conversation with a total stranger.

• How to tease guys.

• I can't stand seeing him talking with other girls.

• How to connect with a guy you never met before.

• How to increase attraction after a first date.

• Key safe-dating strategies - How to protect yourself when dating.

• How to win at first dates.

• How to ask him out.

• Why guys fall for girls like you.

• How to make it easy for him to ask you out.

• Keep it simple for 3 months.

• How to be rejection proof.

• Is he afraid to commit?

• Why does he flirt with you?

• Why he does not call back.

• Understanding men.

• How to get a guy to fall in love with you.

• How to get a guy to notice you.

• And much more!

This is truly only a small fraction of what you will find in the "dating success - For women" section!

I want to make sure you have all the tools you need to be happy and find love again in the future.

Within 30 days, most women are able to get back 80% of their power.

Imagine your life without feeling the need to contact your ex boyfriend or ex husband

Imagine this extra sense of self confidence and inner power!

What I give you here are the direct strategies to make that shift + the motivation and power kicks to take action!

Take action now!

Excellent question!

Most women tend to stay stacked with this challenge because they don't see a valid enough reason to fight. They simply let a break up overpower them. They take the victim role.

For those who genuinely want to get over their ex but don't find a way to, what they miss is simply an effective set of strategies.

Suppose you are a woman. Your first instinct is to simply wait and hope that the break up pain will go away.

It usually does not work! Or if it works, it simply takes too long!

The first step is to understand more about break up dynamics, the forces and emotions involved, the role a break up plays in your life, etc.

Once you have a greater understanding of the break up dynamics, you start taking positive and consistent action to win your life back.

You learn to rebuild your life on a new base, stay focused and discover as well how to connect with new men.

You discover extra sources of power in you.

You reframe your mind sets and reposition the way you stand in this situation.

Basically, you master the break up challenge!

This is why the average woman does not usually tap into these techniques without a little guidance and support.

It is because it takes time and energy to discover the right battle strategies by yourself.

I am convinced that you know already everything you will read in this e-book or listen to in these MP3 audios. A part of you knows it but you are not aware of it.

All these instincts we talk about are deeply buried in your subconscious mind and we simply bring them to the surface so that you can start using them.

If you prefer reinventing the wheel by yourself, you are welcome to go ahead.

I do believe that if you focus on it for a few months or more, you will eventually discover some of the techniques and ideas I am about to share with you.

Even if you really dive in it by yourself, you'll probably unveil only a fraction of what you will discover in this material, though.

The question is: do you have six months? Do you have the time and energy to do all that by yourself or do you prefer taking the direct short cut I am about to share with you.

As soon as you see the strategies I talk about, the path to master your break up will be crystal clear!

Again, it is not that complicate. You simply need the right set of strategies.

What is your choice? Stay stacked at a crossroad for a few months or hit the target within a week?

My advice?

Act now! Don't waste your time! Of course!!!

The best you'll find on the net on this topic!

Sometimes, I find the net very frustrating.

You can spend days researching a subject without finding what you look for.

This is different!

This package is the best you'll find on the net about this topic.

My message is simple: Get it now!

This is not a marketing trick!

I know that this material can rapidly give you your life back!

This material is unique!

It is not therapy!

It is not a set of conceptual ideas which take you nowhere!

It is practical and 100% action and results oriented!

I am a professional life coach!

I have coached many women one on one on this type of issue, by phone or in person!

Now, this material is the nectar of everything I learned. I concentrated all my knowledge and skills in it.

My experience is 100% practical.

What I wrote and recorded is what I learned on the field, helping women like you deal with one of the biggest emotional challenge you can face.

I want you to succeed!

I want you to break through!

What brings me to coaching is not money!

It is the passion for helping women like you overcome key challenges in their lives.

That's my passion!

This is why I invested myself totally to help you wake up a new set of power skills so that your life gets back on track as soon as possible!

This is the spirit in which I created this material!

Get it now!

It is by far the best you'll ever find on the net on this topic!

What you say - Success stories

Some of the success stories that keep pouring into my inbox!

What you mention is exactly what happens in real life

"Your product is very detailed. It hits the nail right on the head. What you mention in your e-book and MP3s is exactly what happens in real life..."

I purchased your material and in just hours I felt back on my feet again!

"Hello Francisco,

I purchased your material and I want to thank you for your valuable coaching and advice.

My ex broke up with me a year and a half ago and I went down the downward spiral. The break up was so sudden and devastating that I didn't know how to recover from it.

I had never had to walk through something as painful.

And believe it or not, after a year and a half I was still waiting by the phone! It was really pathetic. I allowed myself to become a wreck.

I finally came to my senses and realized that I needed to get some help for my situation.

I purchased your material and in just hours I felt back on my feet again! I didn't realize that I could reclaim my power and territory back, nor did I have any idea how to start.

Your coaching has set off a chain reaction in my situation that will continue to allow me to grow and be energized!

Now that I look back on it, it all seems a bit silly. I didn't realize all the pitfalls I was falling into and all the mistakes I was making to take myself lower and lower.

Pretty much all the ‘don't do this' advice you give, well, I did it at one point.

But now I laugh because you have given me the strategy I needed. I am truly thankful for you sharing this advice and coaching."

M

I still read it every day!

"I still read everyday your e-book which helps me a great deal. Thank you so much for writing a fantastic and helpful book."

S - US

I truly feel 1000 times better

"I actually bought your e-book just after posting on the forum.

Let me just say KUDOS to you for the excellent product.

I started reading and just devoured it in about an hour and a half. You are a very insightful and intelligent guy!

Your material helped me almost instantly and I feel great!

I work as a night auditor at a hotel at the moment and I have quite a bit of downtime so this allowed me to go through it all so fast.

I feel like I'll be leaving work this morning a different version of the me that walked in last night.

I truly feel 1000 times better about the whole situation and I am now ready to put my life back in order.

I would recommend you to anyone else in a similar situation."
 

H - US

I'm so glad I found your website!

"Hello Francisco, I just bought your e-book and downloaded all the mp3 files. I can tell you are a straight shooter who gives practical advice on relationship issues.

I'm so glad I found your website! I had done a google search for 'breaking up alternatives' and found you.

Once again, thank you for your dedication and compassion for us out here who are sincerely trying to build (and keep) healthy, satisfying relationships!

Best Regards"

J - US

It's really awesome

"I bought and read your book about breakups.

It's really awesome, I didn't even read it by heart but it gave me some kind of strength and feelings of freedom, I started feeling the breeze, trees, flowers, shrubs etc.

Looks like my awareness came back.

I also got excited of several future plans.

Thanks sir and more power to you."

B - US

I wish I had done that a week ago

"Francisco, I purchased your package and it's been really helpful. I wish I had done that a week ago. In a matter of three days I've been able to make a lot of progress by reading the book over and over. Every time I feel like I'm loosing power I pick it up and read."

JML - US

Wow, this guy knows exactly what I'm going through and what I'm feeling!!!

"Hi Francisco,

I bought your e-book and quickly became a fan of your site. After listening to the first mp3's I began to feel relief of my recent breakup. I thought, "Wow, this guy knows exactly what I'm going through and what I'm feeling!!!"

I recently had a breakup of a 3 yr. relationship with someone that I really thought had been divinely sent to me and thought I would ultimately marry and have a family with.

I just listened to "Power kicks" and thought "Oh my God, that is EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENED, exactly!"

Your insight is amazing!!

I also appreciate that you sound genuinely concerned and interested in all of these dynamics. I'm sure that's what makes you so good at it.

Sincerely"

KS - US

Fantastic!

"Francisco, Just bought your e-book "How to get your Power back". Fantastic!"

PL - US

You really know what you're talking about

"Hi Francisco, firstly just wanted to say a huge thanks for the advice in your ebook. Everything you said made a lot of sense and really helped me to get past that difficult first few weeks after my partner and I broke up.

You really know what you're talking about and I would totally recommend this to anyone struggling to deal with a tough breakup!"

N - US

Absolutely brilliant

"Hi! I have recently purchased "How to get your power back after a break up" which is absolutely brilliant and has helped me a great deal. It really got me back on the right road again. Many thanks!"

TC - US

R - US

You have been a life saver

"Francisco,

"With the advice Francisco has offered, I've been able to regroup and keep myself from losing my cool and control. I was actually falling into the pitfalls he talks about in the beginning.

C - US

My life is so much richer, happier and more fulfilling than at any time since I can remember

"Hi Francisco,

This time last year, my partner left me. It wasn't a great time...

I found your site one night while googling for help with my predicament. I bought your course on breaking up, and set about trying to put it into effect.

I have to say nothing changed overnight, but I still found your material to be enormously helpful and I referred to it again and again.

Now, a year later, I find I have undergone profound changes for the better. My life is so much richer, happier and more fulfilling than at any time since I can remember. I have become fit, active and more gregarious than I have been since I was a teenager. I have met new dates, my career has blossomed and it seems weird to say it, but my marriage break-up has been one of the best things that ever happened to me. I never thought I would find myself saying that.

I hope others in my situation will take heart from my experience.

Your course gave me hope that I would come out smiling the other side; and I have. Hang in there, keep your head up, refer to the course and don't ever doubt that you too will end up so much happier than you can presently imagine. Work hard."

DO

I listened to it as I fall asleep

"Thanks for your "Power" advice to get your power back. I listened to it as I fall asleep to keep my mind of my boyfriend"

Believe it or not, your videos helped me get over him in a day

"Thank you so much for your video How to Get Over A Break Up (for women). I broke up with my boyfriend December 9th and believe it or not, your video helped me get over him in a day. Thank You!!!!!!!"

Here is what is included

100 pages of dynamite! - This is the core product of your package - In PDF format (what's this) - Printable - All active links to all break up resources (including your MP3 audios) are included!

Listen to your e-book live + 14 power kicks + 8 extra strategies for divorce situations + More!

These audios give you direct strategies for the most challenging break up situations - Yes! These MP3 audios can be quickly uploaded to your IPod or MP3 player - You can as well burn them on a CD and listen to them on your way to work for instance.

All audios are available to download either individually or in easy to use "zip" packages in which you get specific sets of MP3 audios at once - More info

A new set of videos I just added! - a give you live direct strategies to deal with some your key break up challenges! - A must have if you want to get your life back as soon as possible!

These are targeted extra articles that answer key break up challenges - I take real life situations my clients face and give you directed strategies to deal with them.

So many specific break up challenges analyzed in detail with best strategies to deal with them! - These articles and expert advices are available in a convenient blog format with simple label search.

To make sure you don't miss out on the latest news, I regularly post updates, new videos or audios on this blog!

200+ break up questions already answered - Ask a question - Get feed back on your unique situation - Share your story - Topics covered include:

• Breaking up

• Dating skills

• How to deal with rejection

• How to deal with cheating and infidelity

• How to deal with your ex

• And more!

To make sure you get back on track fast, I offer you access to the totality of the "dating success - For women" program and resources on vitalcoaching.com.

This includes detailed e-book, videos, audios and more!

The moment you are ready you can access all the strategies and tips you need to start dating again and be successful with men.

To your dating power!

A few words to introduce myself

My name is Francisco Bujan ("vitalcoach" in the forums and blogs). I am the author of this material and the creator of vitalcoaching.com

I am a full time professional coach.

What gives me the authority to help you with these topics is not the fact that like you, I was confronted with and solved my own set of challenges, it is the fact that I actively coached dozens of men and women on these specific areas.

In spent dozens of coaching hours with my clients designing the strategies I am about to offer you.

I am now excited to share everything I learned with you.

This material is unique and it will give you the set of strategies + power kicks you need to solve so many of your key life challenges!

To your power!

Product features

Why not just an e-book?

Actually everything you need is often already contained in your e-book (or e-books depending on the package you are accessing).

Many links to videos, audios, advices, forum and member area are often included in your e-books as well.

I wanted to offer you the same material in various formats to make sure that you can access these strategies exactly the way YOU want to.

Some people prefer listening to an MP3 audio power kick while driving on their way to work instead of reading an E-book for instance.

Sometimes you will want to see me live in a targeted video advice.

Others prefer to read forum posts and see live examples with solutions of what others are facing.

This is why I offer this multi tools approach.

Easily winning your life challenges has to do with immersion! You dive into it! Having something to read + watch + listen to + actively participate in is ideal.

I created this package with these various formats because I know it is what works best!

All this material available in one user's friendly member area

You can access all of this material any time over and over again! - It's 100% hassle free!

After your purchase, you receive instantly the link to your member area + Login + Password.

 All your E-books + MP3 audios + Videos + Articles + Blogs + Forums are accessible with a simple link.

You can access your member area in the future as many times as you want - It's all automatic, simple and direct!

Live help!

If the strategies you are about to access are not enough, you can sign up for extra coaching sessions with me by phone or email.

The price for these sessions is not included in your package but I made it really affordable for you to receive this extra coaching if you need to - Sessions start at $29.50 for a 15 minutes expert advice session.

Instant access!

The totality of this material is available instantly after you make your payment - You are simply directed to a download page where you can access all of it! - You are instantly given a simple login and password to easily access your member area in the future - You are free to access this material as many times as you want - There is no limit!

Free updates

This material is regularly updated with new videos, audios and more! These updates and eventual new features are all available on your member page - It's all included!

PDF E-books

All E-books are in PDF format which is universal standard for this type of document - You can read your e-book from any PC, Mac, Iphone, Blackberry, Kindle and more.

Your e-books are instant download + printable.

MP3 Audios

All audios are in MP3 format - This format is universal and can be played on any media player

You can as well upload these MP3 audios to your Ipod, Iphone, MP3 player or hard disk.

You can as well easily burn these files to a CD and play them on any CD player or computer

Most audios are available to download either individually or in easy to use "zip" packages in which you get whole sets of MP3 audios at once.

Videos

Your videos are accessible in two easy to use formats.

Some videos are already embedded in a player. You open the page, click on the play button and this is it!

Other videos will open your Windows media player. You can either download them to your computer first or start watching them straight away.

Technical support

Our support structure is super effective - If you feel challenged by any aspect of your product and need a hand, we are always committed and glad to answer any question - Our team is fast and super friendly! - You won't be left alone! Guaranteed!

24 hours response

I spend a lot of time online and like you, I don't like waiting for days for an answer! - This is why we respond to any query within 24 hours guaranteed! (Week days)

Usually, your question will be answered within a few hours or even instantly! - We are dedicated to offer you a solid, fast and effective support structure!

This is how we deal with any query.

100% secure online payments

Not sure about online payments? - We use two 100% secure online payments processing systems - Paypal and 2CheckOut - 60 million+ users with Paypal for instance can't be wrong! - Both are 100% reliable.

Never had a single problem with them in the 7 years I have been using their systems!

30 days money back guarantee

Yes! If within 30 days after your purchase you feel this material is not for you, we'll send you a refund! - The refund process is simple and direct!