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Crushes – ARTICLE

Crushes are great and exciting as long as you understand the dynamics of your desire. Feeling in love is a wonderful state of mind. Go for it and enjoy, but s...

What is emotional freedom? – ARTICLE

The expression emotional freedom is self explanatory, right? Right now, what is your level of emotional freedom? Do you have it or not? Do you have any ha...

The obsessive trap – ARTICLE

Love can become obsessive. Passion has two sides to it. One side is a thrilling experience. It brings joy, pleasure and excitement. Another side is painful...

Why you can get hurt – ARTICLE

There are two key qualities which manifest in dating: Love and power. Everyone knows about the love side. When you get hurt, it is because you miss the pow...

How to disinvest – ARTICLE

When you let go of someone you love, it is like a break up. If you were not dating yet, it will be of course easier to get over that man. It will be a mini ...

You deserve happiness! – ARTICLE

You deserve happiness! It is as simple, as that. Love and happiness are precious. They are energies and substances in your life. The more you have of them,...

Fun of dating – ARTICLE

Dating is fun! It is about enjoying life. Once you know how to deal with your life’s emotional and material challenges, the goal is to enjoy your love life...

How to stay independent – ARTICLE

You stay independent by not revealing all your cards. You can keep flirting with other guys. Don't behave like you belong to someone. Suppose you met this g...

Emotional commitment – ARTICLE

There are two levels of commitment. The first one is an emotional one. It happens without you even noticing it or deciding for it. The second level of comm...

When to have sex – ARTICLE

This question comes often in your dating life. Is it better to simply follow your wild impulsion and go with it or is it better to slightly hold back? When a ...

One way commitment – ARTICLE

One way commitment is the greatest dating mistake you can make. One way commitment happens in these key situations: · When you fall, for someone who i...

How to be rejection proof – ARTICLE

Rejection is the number one challenge in the dating scene. What you need is a solid emotional strategy to handle it. What is the force you need to be rejection...

Ready for your next step – ARTICLE

The next step is to enjoy! We discussed many strategies. These strategies are a battle plan. You want to stay in charge of your life. This is your goal. ...

If you got hurt in the past – ARTICLE

If you got hurt in the past when falling in love, I know exactly how you feel. You get hurt for one simple reason: You love someone who does not love you back...

Wake up your fighting power – ARTICLE

The first step is to understand and accept these power dynamics. Once you realize and see them, it is already 50% of the work which is done. Developing your ...

Protect yourself! – ARTICLE

Your mind, love and energy are precious. Dating can be a battle for power, attention and love. The goal is simple: invest in what has chances to blossom. If ...