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YONI MASSAGE FOR LOVERS

INTENTION It can be therapeutic, emotional release, trauma release, dearmoring, pleasure, energetic activation, sacred, sensual resensitizing, consciousness ...

VITAL FIGHTS – ENERGETIC INTENSITY

Especially in lovers context, we tend to think that tantra is all about sweetness and love and harmony. It's not! The light aspects of relating are only a...

WHY WOMEN TEST YOU

That's one of the most confusing things for guys... Having a woman tell you she wants something just to realize she is actually testing you. What are these...

WHY YOU MIGHT SABOTAGE YOUR LOVE LIFE

PAIN / PLEASURE DILEMMA This dilemma is VERY simple: On one side you want love and a fulfilling relationship! On the other side you want to protect yourse...

WHY EXPOSE YOURSELF TO FEMALE SHADOWS

Here is what I see when I look at shadow's evolutionary purpose: Your destiny as a man is to master various forms of energetic environments. You he...

HOW TO MASTER FEMALE SHADOWS

As a man, being exposed to female shadows can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. What do you do when she blasts you with undigested storie...

WHY DO WOMEN CHALLENGE MEN?

We checked a whole range of possible shadow attacks coming from women you can be exposed to. A core question is "Why?" Why do women, especia...

VITAL GATE – VITAL LOVE

Over the last few days, I keep having these discussions on love, attraction, male female dynamics, polyamory, finding the one, keeping sex exciting, not feeling...

Power to your couple! – ARTICLE

Are you in a situation where you are not getting the full dimension of your relationship? You feel that something is missing but can't really identify what it ...

New relationship equations – ARTICLE

Today’s relationship model is being redesigned. The divorce rates are very high: In the western hemisphere, a couple has 50% chances of being divorced with...

Use your renewal power – ARTICLE

One key to long term success with your relationship is “renewal power”. Renewal power is your ability to keep evolving while in a relationship. Relationships...

One couple – Two visions – ARTICLE

Conflicts do arise when you have two visions at play: yours and the one from your partner. The art of being together is the art of creating a third reality wh...

Play the “Yes! And…” game – ARTICLE

When your partner speaks, you say a lot: “Yes! And….” Rather than “Yes, but…” If you want to understand synergy, play this simple game with your partner: You ...

How to empower your partner – ARTICLE

One key to stay together happy and long term is to be an empowering force for your partner. When you join forces in a relationship, the idea is to be each oth...

How to get your needs met – ARTICLE

You want to empower your partner and you want as well to be empowered by him. The key to get your needs met is to educate them. How do you educate them? You...

10 STEPS TO A DYNAMIC RELATIONSHIP

Dialogue Create a Forum Space. Renew, Refresh Be open for new ideas, change. Think of modern trends, etc. Spontaneity Anything to break the habits. Respon...

Channel of love – ARTICLE

When you are in a relationship, the goal is to create an infinitely strong channel of love, trust, respect, power and loyalty between you and your partner. The...

Synergize your couple – ARTICLE

Are you familiar with the term synergy? You might have heard it in a business context. Synergy is usually what you want to create in business meetings. Syne...

How to build up trust – ARTICLE

Trust is a key empowering force in your relationship. What do you trust? · Your partner? · Yourself? · The "spirit" of your relations...

Avoid power trips – ARTICLE

The next step is to use your power wisely. You have no right to control your partner’s thoughts beliefs or actions. They belong to him and he was born with a s...

How to deal with challenges – ARTICLE

A relationship challenge is an opportunity to grow. Every time you overcome a challenge, you grow stronger. You face tests as an individual. The same goes for ...

How to create dialogue – ARTICLE

You establish dialogue by thinking win-win! That's it! You shift from a "win-loose" model and start thinking in win-win! All the time! Your relationship is ...

Say it at the right time! – ARTICLE

Many relationship misunderstandings have to do with “catching” your partner at the wrong moment. Right timing is essential when you want to reach each other. ...