I know how you feel!
You did not expect this!
When she blows the news in your face, you think: “But! But! But!… We had all these plans…”
The truth is that a break up can hit you anytime anywhere.
You can be 21 or 56! The dynamics are always the same!
In fact you need to shift gears.
You go into survival and fighting speed.
Why is that? Because your emotional security based on your couple’s cell is suddenly replaced by a new plan.
This is why it’s okay to feel quite disturbed and even angry!
This is what I want to tell you and it’s important!
Being angry is okay. It’s your fire breaking through.
Don’t stay there! Act!