Once attraction is granted and you did demonstrate higher value, the next step is to create comfort.
how do you create comfort?
Again, you suggest it.
I want you to feel really at ease.
here, have a drink.
That’s called being a gentleman in the old sense.
Now, when you display a creation of comfort, you don’t have to put your power down.
being kind when she knows you don’t have to will trigger security in her.
She will stay tense as long as she does not feel this sense of comfort.
What gives her comfort is your confidence and the fact that you do give her protection.
Now, once you have the attitude right, how do you express that verbally to her?