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Your question Hi, I just got this girl's number after a fun conversation and she seemed interested when I asked her for a beer after she was done passing out fliers and she would've, but she had a paper to write. So I asked her out a few times over the next week, but left messages for her each time. So she finally called me back and for one reason or another there was no chemistry on the phone (one word answers, that sort of thing) and we were supposed to get together that day but didn't work out because I had stuff to do. So I stopped by her work because it was in the area earlier today - and again, same awkwardness, but partly because she was busy. So I left and called her later in the afternoon and left her a message apologizing for the awkwardness at her work earlier today and invited her out for a movie tonight. But I haven't received a call from her. I am getting the sense that I am over pursuing, which is bad, can you help me on what I should do next?
Answer
Hi,
Definitely yes!
you are being pushy. When you do that it makes
you sound clingy and desperate which are two big
turn offs for a girl. It makes you look like you
have nothing else to do.
I know, you want
to show he you like her but the way she
interprets it is totally different.
Solutions? Give
space. If you call once and she does not
respond, give it at least a week. Keep your
options open, date other girls. Don't focus
exclusively on her otherwise you'll be extremely
dependent.
Stay free and act
free. The quality she is looking for in you is
self confidence and inner trust.
So, take some
distance, don't expect too much and if in a week
or so she did not respond, call her again for a
quick light chat. No demands, no pressure, no
explanations, simply light and fun. Show your
self confidence. Give her space.
Sorry for the
cliché but love is like a flower. Give is some
time and space to grow naturally. If you push or
pressure, you kill the magic.
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