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Do you feel pain right now?

Pain can take many shapes and many forms. Let’s look at “missing someone”.

Missing someone? What is that?

It is an emotional gap, right? When you miss someone something strange happens with your emotions. It’s like some from of energy inside tearing you apart. It’s the same as hunger but then on an emotional level. You want to hug, hold someone. You want to kiss, make love, share, talk… Do all these things.

This is the toughest challenge when you break up. You can go into therapy and nurture these feelings, try to understand them. It’s like mourning, right? You feel this gap in you and you want to act on it.

What I will say now might surprise you: your mind is a battle field. When you feel pain, there is a battle of energies going on.

You feel pain because she is in your mind. The way to get rid of the pain is to get your full power back.

When you saw the title of this book, your read the term power: Get your power back.

It is exactly that: get your power back. This is the key to successfully moving on.

What is the key? It is called emotional freedom. Emotional freedom is exactly the opposite of missing someone.

No contact?

It’s an option of course. Your instinct guides you with that. Do whatever feels right for you. Observe the way it makes you feel. Suppose you don’t see her or don’t talk to her for 2 weeks. You feel your life blossoming. You speak on the phone and everything goes down? Take this as a sign, an indication.

Do what it takes to preserve your emotional security.

Is there a chance of you two getting back together?

That’s the most common dream. When you break up, you have to let go. There are actually little chances of you two getting back together. This hope you have in your mind might be the number one force which stops you from moving forward.

The wish for things to be different is like a doubt, fear or hesitation. It is related with the fear of being alone and the fear that there is nothing in the future for you. WRONG!

You have a future! With or without her! Chances do open up the moment your mind is available.

When is your mind available? When you have control over your life not her.

In 95% of the cases, getting back together does not work. Why is that? Because the patterns you two shared and which created the “saturation” leading to your break up are still there.

In fact when you get back together you usually recreate exactly the same emotional patterns as the ones which were there before.

You might shift things around for a couple of months, but eventually fall back into the old model and do the same mistakes.

It’s much easier to simply move on and create a new life with someone else. When you create a new life with someone else all you have to do is create. If your try again with you ex, you need first to clean up, remove old patterns and redesign your relationship. This usually requires too much time, skills and energy and partners tend to give up on that.

Are there any situations where it can work? Yes. If you have been together for a few years and there is infidelity. This could be a one times thing perceived by the cheater as an incredible mistake. You might split for a while and eventually get back together when you have the power to forgive and move on.

“Once a cheater, always a cheater?” I disagree. Some people can effectively perceive the destructive effects of an affair and consciously decide to stay away from this. They consciously choose to be faithful to protect the relationship or the family.

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