Getting ready to date means understanding what stands on your way and knowing where you want to go.
What can stand on your way to you being successful are fears, doubts, negative past experiences, lack of knowledge, lack of skills, etc.
If you are unsure about where you want to go or where you want to be, there are good chances you won’t leave your starting blocks.
- First step – Know what you want
Do you want to simply date?
Find Mr. Right?
Do you want a long term steady relationship?
With what kind of man do you want to be?
This is not limiting your choice!
You are not closing doors here, simply pointing out the right direction for you.
- Second step – Understand who you are!
Write down the top 10 key qualities you have to offer.
Write down 5 key qualities you certainly don’t want to express in the dating scene.
If you were meeting yourself somewhere, would you date yourself?
If the answer is no, do something about it and remove anything which feels unattractive in you.
- Third step – Strategy
The dating world is a competitive environment.
You want to be ready for the challenge.
What is the challenge?
Possibility to face judgment, rejection, doubts, etc.
It is all a game, so take everything lightly.
On the other hand, it’s hugely fun if you simply accept the dating world for what it is: an opportunity to grow, understand yourself, develop meaningful relationships with people, a place to create, be creative and share your passions, desires and excitement with others.
- Fourth step – Understand your past
You don’t want anything standing on your way to you having a great time.
You need to be free.
Feel emotionally free!
If you feel trapped in negative mind frames, identify what is going on!
Identify the underlying dynamics and don’t be afraid to deal with it.
This is not therapy, it is a “freedom move” which allows you to eliminate any conflicting forces in your mind!