Her mother died exactly 6 years ago – Should I email her or not? – TIP

You owe her nothing. It is that simple – You are no longer responsible for her well being or comfort.

That’s the default attitude.

Now if you want to take a step out of compassion and send her a one line text message or email, that’s ok too, but only if you are ok with her not even answering back or saying thank you.

My advice would be: if it hurts you in any way, don’t contact her. Someone else is now taking care of her.