Rejection is the number one challenge in the dating scene. What you need is a solid emotional strategy to handle it.
What is the force you need to be rejection proof?
Take this example: You are a woman. You like a guy. You ask him out. He says “no, thank you”. This single response impacts on your life, self esteem and future behavior. Because of this one rejection, you might never ask a guy out again! Can you see the dynamics? It’s crazy!
One guy! One rejection! You build a mind frame around it which can create a prison of energies for the next 20 years of your life!
That’s one situation where extra power and understanding would definitely help:
Dating is a battle field!
Of course it is initiated by love but the context in which it happens is highly competitive. In fact, it’s more competitive than a martial art’s dojo. It is literally a psychic battle for power and love.
When a guy rejects you, here is what happens:
You say “Peace, love”.
He answers back with an attack!
It is not conscious but this is what it is!!!!
His rejection is an attack on your conquering power, your desire, your life, etc.
Sometimes he is well intended and does not mean it.
Sometimes though, he will do something consciously simply to make you feel terrible.
If you go back home and say something like: “I’ll never ask a guy out again!” That’s it! He wins! You loose! When you loose, it’s your whole destiny line which gets blocked.
In fact you let this single emotional reaction from one person decide the way you will feel about guys for the next 20 years!!! or even more.
Come on! His reaction has nothing to do with love.
It has to do with power.
His mind wins over yours.
His emotion impacts on your mind and grows in a cluster of negative energy.
Can you see the dynamics?
Now, here is the deal: Extra power gives you the energy to protect your mind space! Your thoughts are more important than his thoughts. A guy will not stop you. Not one rejection, not 1000!
You see why we talk about power.
Because no one has the right to kill your dignity!
It is very simple.
Your inner power has precisely this ability: To give you natural resources to preserve your mind space.