Here are a couple of ideas:
The best way to find out is to try it.
It is very challenging to know how something is going to feel unless you experience it.
Experience is what helps you make a choice.
If you take a small step and it feels right, uplifting and opening, then it probably means that you are on the right track.
By the way, you can’t get it wrong.
You can always come back to it later, right?
Tantric sex gives you tools to master your sexual energy + Lead you to self realization.
It wakes up your cosmic or universal identify and helps you transcend the physical reality.
If you struggle with your sexual energy and can’t find satisfaction in your present sexual expressions, then tantric sex could be for you.
The best again is to take small steps and feel how your being responds to these techniques and ideas.
You will usually get a VERY clear answer after that.
To your tantra!