It is simple: respect and diplomacy.
When she calls, you can say: “Hi, how are you?” Let her speak for a few seconds.
Then interrupt her and say: “You know what? Now is not a good time. I have to go to … or deal with…”
If she insists, repeat: “Sorry, now is not a good time…”
And say something like: “I have to go now. Talk to you another time. Take care. Bye”
That’s just the general idea.
If you meet her, same story: “Hi!”, “Bye, see you later”
Cut any unwanted contact you have with her to 1 minute or less.
That’s the best way to not let her in.
You’ll be amazed of how good it feels when you apply this simple strategy.
To your power!