My girlfriend and I have gotten back together again after a 1/2 year break up. She wasn’t meeting any of my needs as I met all of her wants and needs. She said to me several months ago that she made a mistake and wanted back in my life.
At first I was reluctant, but soon after I let my wall down and let her back into my life. I thought that she had changed, only to find that she changed for a brief moment. We still don’t kiss, hug (I very seldom get to see her without clothes on) and we haven’t had a sexual relationship in 6 months (it was the same before or break up).
I am there for her when she needs support, help or whatever the need at that time may be. She won’t say to me she loves me even though when I ask her if she does, she will say, yes she loves me. She never makes the first move to reach out and hold my hand or hold me and kissing seem to be a struggle for her. She says she wants to marry me, but now I fear I will have this struggle with her the rest of my life. I try to talk to her about it and it only upsets her.
I guess my question is, is she using me for her own comfort, taking me for granted because she knows I’m always there for her? I can’t figure her out. What should I do?