Jealousy - How to deal with it - For men

The effective, simple and direct strategies you get right now, if you don't want your jealousy, possessiveness or demanding attitudes to destroy your relationship!


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Strategies + Power kicks

The goal of this material is very clear!

Give you all the tools you need to turn unwanted jealousy responses into an empowering feeling of trust!

If your girlfriend or wife threatened to leave you because of your jealous, controlling or possessive attitudes, this is the exact set of strategies you want!

In fact, what I give you is much more than a set of strategies!

It is a complete winning system which tackles your jealousy challenges!

And yes! It is very simple and easy to use!

It literally takes 5 minutes to get it!

It is written in plain and simple language!

It only takes 30-60 minutes to go through this material!

No complex concepts!

It is packed with power and energy!

Winning strategies for real jealousy situations!

We could spend days discussing concepts and ideas about jealousy and guess what? It would not help you much!

You want practical tools! What you need are very specific new strategies to deal with key jealousy challenges!

Here are some of the situations I cover in depth and give you new refreshing strategies for:

  • She cheated before! - You are worried she will cheat again!

  • A male friend calls her at 10 pm.

  • She is a real flirt when you go out.

  • She does not listen when you share you personal problems.

  • She is all excited when her ex contacts her.

  • She had many sex partners before you.

  • She does not want to have sex when you want to.

  • She goes partying with her girlfriends.

  • She is so open with everyone.

  • He boss likes her.

  • She dresses very sexy when she goes to the gym.

  • You don't like the idea of her massagist touching her.

  • And more!


Here are the some of the top questions this material will answer for you:

  • Why getting rid of unwanted jealousy is so thrilling!

  • Why you can change even if you are the jealous type.

  • How exactly to retrain an unwanted jealousy response.

  • What is the difference between justified and unjustified jealousy?

  • How to respond to jealousy triggers.

  • Isn't a little jealousy good for your relationship?

  • Does excessive jealousy fall into the category of emotional and mental abuse?

  • What if you like being jealous? Is there something wrong with you?

  • How exactly to change your ways if you have a bad jealousy problem.

  • How to you deal with feelings of anger and jealousy when you see your ex chatting it up with other guys.

  • How to deal with jealousy in a long distance relationship.

  • Should you confront your girlfriend if you know she is lying?

  • How to discuss your feelings of jealousy when you see your girlfriend chatting with another guy?

  • How to get over your jealousy when your friend with benefits finds another guy?

  • How to make sure that your girlfriend does not leave you over a jealousy issue.

  • If it is that easy to shift a jealousy response, how come guys tend to be stacked with it?

  • Isn't jealousy a bit like being emotionally immature?

  • Male and female jealousy? Are they the same?

  • My best female friend spends all the time with her new partner!

  • What works best with jealousy issues? Coaching or therapy?

  • Why you feel jealous when you see your ex with her new boyfriend

  • Why the key is to own these tools! - It is to be the master of your jealousy, not its slave ;)

  • Married or just dating? - Does this justify a different type of jealousy response?

  • Positive jealousy? - Does it even exist?

  • If I don't get jealous, does she think that I don't care?

  • And more!

Top 10 strategies to build up extra power and get rid of unwanted jealousy

In other terms, how exactly to get rid of insecurity and build up an infinite reserve of power, trust and self confidence:

  • What are the top 10 strategies to get rid of unwanted jealousy.

  • Why it is essential to understand the dynamics of jealousy, how it originates, why it is there in the first place and the role it plays in your love life.

  • How to stop finding excuses and function again at 100% of your true power potential.

  • If you feel you can't measure to other males, how to do something about it?

  • Why you want to get validation from other women as well and how to easily get just that!

  • Where and how to find extra power when you face a jealousy challenge.

  • How to define exactly what cheating is or is not.

  • How to face your fears and wake up to a new thrilling sense of inner power.

  • How to work on jealousy issues with her if you want to.

  • How to refocus your energy around trust and self confidence.

  • Why you want to do this for yourself first.

  • How to invest yourself in this change and renewal experience.

  • Why you do have the power to shift things around!

More strategies!

  • Should you check on her if you believe she is cheating?

  • Is it okay for her to have a male friend?

  • How to deal with the men she interacts with?

  • What if she keeps pictures of her exes? Is this okay?

  • Why she must respect your personal space and how to get her to.

  • What if she cheated before?

  • Is she just trying to make you jealous? Why???

  • What if she talks a lot about other men.

  • How to deal with seeing her having a chat with someone else.

  • Why being clingy or desperate is a big turn off for women.

  • Why you get jealous of your ex's new relationship.

  • What if you are jealous of the men she works with?

  • What if you have always been the jealous type?

  • What if she is a real flirt?

  • What if your jealousy is already destroying your relationship?

  • What to do if she already broke up with you over your jealousy?

  • How to react when her ex calls her?

  • What to do if she is still active on this dating site?

  • How to give her the gift of freedom?

  • What if you spied on her and now, she says she can't trust you?

  • And more!

The target? Get rid of 80% of your unwanted jealousy

Within 30 days, most men are able to get rid of 80% of their unwanted jealousy.

Imagine your life without jealousy and desire to control your girlfriend or wife!

Imagine this extra sense of self confidence, inner power and trust!

What I give you here are the direct strategies to make that change + the motivation and power kicks to take action that way!

Take action now!

Targeted strategies for women as well

If you want to work on this with your partner, here are some strategies especially for her!

  • My boyfriend is super jealous! - He thinks it's just normal!

  • How to react to your husband's jealousy if he stirs fights over suspicions of infidelity?

  • And more!

If it is that easy to shift a jealousy response, how come guys tend to be stacked with it?

Excellent question!

Most guys tend to stay stacked with this issue because they don't see a valid enough reason to change.

For those who genuinely want to change but don't find a way to, what they miss is simply an effective strategy.

Suppose you are a jealous guy. Your first instinct is to try to suppress your jealousy response.

It's like trying to put a lid on it!

It usually does not work!

The first step is to understand more about jealousy dynamics, how they originate, why they are there in the first place, the role they play in your love life, etc.

Once you have a greater understanding of the jealousy dynamics, you respectfully reorient the power behind your jealousy and use it in a more effective way.

You learn to communicate with your girlfriend more effectively.

You discover extra sources of power in you.

You reframe your mind sets and reposition the way you stand in your relationship.

Basically, you master that power and energy!

You don't suppress it!

This is why the average guy does not usually tap into these techniques without a little guidance and support.

It is because it takes time and energy to discover all that by yourself.

I am convinced that you know already everything you will read in this e-book or listen to in these MP3 audios. A part of you knows it but you are not aware of it.

All these instincts we talk about are deeply buried in your subconscious mind and we simply bring them to the surface so that you can start using them.

If you prefer reinventing the wheel by yourself, you are welcome to go ahead.

I do believe that if you focus on it for a few months or more, you will eventually discover some of the techniques and ideas I am about to share with you.

Even if you really dive in it by yourself, you'll probably unveil only a fraction of what you will discover in this material, though.

The question is: do you have three months? Do you have the time and energy to do all that by yourself or do you prefer taking the direct short cut I am about to share with you.

As soon as you see the strategies I talk about, the path to master your jealousy will be crystal clear!

Again, it is not that complicate. You simply need the right set of strategies.

What is your choice? Stay stacked at a crossroad for a few months or hit the target within a week?

My advice?

Act now! Don't waste your time! Of course!!!

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My message is simple: Get it now!

This is not a marketing trick!

I know that this material can rapidly shift any jealousy issue you might face.

This material is unique!

It is not therapy!

It is not a set of conceptual ideas which take you nowhere!

It is practical and 100% action and results oriented!

I am a professional life coach!

I have coached many men one on one on this type of issue, by phone or in person!

Now, this material is the nectar of everything I learned. I concentrated all my knowledge and skills in it.

My experience is 100% practical. What I wrote is what I learned on the field, helping men like you deal with one of the biggest emotional challenge you can face.

I want you to succeed!

I want you to break through!

What brings me to coaching is not money!

It is the passion for helping men like you overcome key challenges in their lives.

That's my passion!

This is why I invested myself totally to help you wake up a new set of power skills in your life and relationship so that you are easily able to shift any unwanted jealousy response at will!

This is the spirit in which I created this material!

Get it now!

It is by far the best you'll ever find on the net on this topic!



What you say - Your feed back

Jealousy - For men - Success stories

This book helped me to an extent I can't even express - I was spinning out of control with jealously issues

This book helped me to an extent I can't even express. I was spinning out of control with jealously issues. Some founded, most not. Reading this gave me the tools I needed to stop and control my jealous thoughts and behaviors. It helped me save my relationship. It's not 100% fixed but it is sure of a heck better than what it was. I plan on reading it for a second time because the information in it is just so dead on. I have been suggesting this to others. I am an older man dating a very hot, intelligent woman and I was struggling with stupid STUPID jealously. THANK YOU!!!!!!

You will not BELIEVE the progress I have made

"Hey Francisco, just an update...

The girl that I was involved with, we're currently talking again and in the process seeing what went wrong and trying to move forward.

You will not BELIEVE the progress I have made in terms of my jealousy and control issues. I can now chill when she is on facebook etc talking to other male friends and not have a care in the world.

She has told me about guys hitting on her and trying to get at her and the old me would get all upset and ask why she was talking to them but now I just casually tease her and leave it alone.

I appreciate the fact that she's open enough to tell me about it. She even goes as far as to ask if I want to see conversations or transcripts! I said nah I'm learning to trust you again so you can keep them.

Then I persist and tell her if I saw her out I would hit on her too. I have a new feeling of confidence and now feel as if I can control my emotions in specific situations instead of feelings like a helpless prisoner to my feelings.

I owe a lot of thanks to you man."


I now virtually laugh when I do feel it!!

"Hey Francisco, How are you doing? - I am overcoming jealousy well with your techniques from speaking with you and the vitalcoaching pages.

I have found it interesting studying the triggers of this emotion and now virtually laugh when I do feel it!! - If I get stuck at any point I will give you a call to learn more wonderful life skills!! :) Many Thanks"


Thanks for the wake-up call!

"Hi Francisco. Thanks for the wake-up call! You managed to encourage me to create a different mindset to tackle my dilemma. Of course, I've consulted my friends and peers but no one really has given me straight answers. Everything in your material is empowering.

Anyway, me and my partner are in good terms these days. Our talks have been nothing but fun and intimate. So far so good. I'm slowly developing my trust. Lately, I've been challenged and I know this won't be the last of it. She told me that she will go out to a club this Saturday with her girlfriends. My reply "Oh that's great. Hope you'll have fun." She said "Thanks. I might try to see you afterwards if you're not busy." And I want to tell you that it is a relief. No tension. No worries.

I know that this is not yet a measure of dealing with my jealousy but I know and I feel that I am on the right track. I just hope that I can hold on to this and eventfully master the game and then...it's a win-win situation for me and my partner.

I will update you on this and again, thanks for being my coach."  

P - US

We are really happy together again

"After some pain, I'm glad to say things are now sorted and we are really happy together again. Your e-book (Jealousy - How to deal with it - For men) really helped me to see things from her perspective, and helped me to realize that my ideas were 'old fashioned'


They have been a great help to me

"I have been listening to your jealousy for men series. I wanted to thank you, they have been a great help to me. After many years of being this type of person I am starting to understand what is going on inside me. Again, thank you!"


I watched your videos on jealousy and am finding myself more and more calm

"Hi! - I watched your videos on jealousy and am finding myself more and more calm thanks to your very understandable and logical coaching. I appreciate and thank you for uploading such vital help for guys, like myself, who struggle with this common problem."

It has really helped and I still use it

"Hey, just a quick note to say thank you for your ebook on overcoming jealousy. I had jealousy issues thanks to a past relationship and I was sick of it affecting this one. It has really helped and I still use it."


I can really feel you know what your talking about!!

"I was just watching your videos on jealousy... Just want to say I can really feel you know what your talking about!!"


My hunch is that you impact many lives as you have mine

I am a retired therapist and would like to give my professional congratulations to you about tackling some difficult topics. Because of time restraints I am only able to listen to the mp3's but I must say that you have done a superior job. It is difficult to find solid information about jealousy especially that the lay person can understand. My hunch is that you impact many lives as you have mine


I have power over my mind

"I just wanted to express my gratitude over that last session we had. I've really been studying the notes I've taken and every day I feel more and more emotionally free.

I have power over my mind and feel emancipated from jealous behaviors. There may be times I may wonder what she is doing since we are not talking and I just remember "I can't control what she does" and there is no need to feel this way or get upset and i just feel at peace afterward.

I do believe if you let someone go and they come back to you then it's meant to be, if not then they we're never with you. My mindset right now is that of emotional independence.

If she moves on then I am completely fine with it and I will move on too because I'm a great guy, have a great career ahead, a great job, great friends and have been getting looks and affirmation from other females as well. If she does come back I know we will have a WONDERFUL relationship now that I decided to change the way I think and things are getting BETTER.

Thank you so much Francisco and I WILL be buying more training sessions in the future.

I do love her, but I love myself and will allow her to have space to realize that I made a mistake but I'm not a bad person and whenever she does decide to then she'll have a great, reformed guy waiting for her."


This is the first time I have felt that I can actually do something about my jealousies instead of letting them ruin my relationships

"It has been a lot easier to face it, understand it and communicate with my partner since I have had your program. Just being able to scroll a chapter on a heated subject would give me perspective and calm my mind enough to try handling a situation in a better way. I really appreciate the work you are doing! This is the first time I have felt that I can actually do something about my jealousies instead of letting them ruin my relationships."


 I am FAR FAR better than I was before - many thanks!!!

"I found your program to be very helpful and useful-especially in the area of realizing that jealousy was actually a sign of weakness. My wife and I have talked at length about this area- which I appreciate of her - she says fix this and everything will be great. Both you and her made me realize -rather than her thinking I loved her when expressing jealousy - even distrust - it repelled her and made things worse. While not perfect - I am FAR FAR better than I was before - many thanks!!!"



Here is what is included

Jealousy - For men - E-book

170+ pages of dynamite! - This is the core product of your package - In PDF format which is the standard delivery format for e-books

Jealousy - For men - Videos

This is the last addition to this set of power resources - I just finished recording 6 new videos that you will surely like!

I speak with you live without detour about power dynamics, keys to tame your instincts, how to shift mind sets and more!

Here is what I covered so far:

  • Why you express jealousy - 5 min

  • How to shift an unwanted jealousy response - 5 mi

  • Why unjustified jealousy is emotional abuse - 5 min

  • How to get rid of jealousy without losing your power - 5 min

  • How to express your power in a wiser way - 5 min

  • How to train a new behaviour - 5 min

I consciously chose to record short videos so that you can head straight to what you need the most.

like you, I don't want to waste any time! I give you all the short cuts I know so that you can start taking steps straight away!


Jealousy - For men - Audios

13 power kicks giving you direct strategies for the most challenging jealousy situations - Yes! These MP3 audios can be quickly uploaded to your IPod or MP3 player - You can as well burn them on a CD and listen to them on your way to work for instance.

All audios are available to download either individually or in one easy to use "zip" package in which you get the whole set of MP3 audios at once.


Jealousy - For men - Articles

30+ jealousy specific jealousy challenges analyzed in detail with best strategies to solve them! - These articles and expert advices are available in a convenient blog format with simple label search.

Jealousy - For men - News

I post regularly updates, answers to questions + more in this easy to navigate blog! - That way, I make sure you don't miss my latest discoveries or updates to this material!

Jealousy - For men - Forum

200+ jealousy questions already answered - Ask a question - Get feed back on your unique situation - Share your story - Topics covered include:

  • Jealousy

  • Communication skills

  • Relationship challenges

  • Trust issues

  • How to deal with cheating and infidelity

  • + More!

Your coach


A few words to introduce myself

My name is Francisco Bujan. I am the author of this material and the creator of vitalcoaching.com

I am a full time professional coach.

What gives me the authority to help you with these topics is not the fact that like you, I was confronted with and solved my own set of challenges, it is the fact that I actively coached dozens of men and women on these specific areas.

In spent dozens of coaching hours with my clients designing the strategies I am about to offer you.

I am now excited to share everything I learned with you.

This material is unique and it will give you the set of strategies + power kicks you need to solve so many of your key life challenges!

To your power!

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Why not just an e-book?

I wanted to offer you the same material in various formats to make sure that you can access these strategies exactly the way YOU want to.

Some people prefer listening to an MP3 audio power kick while driving on their way to work instead of reading an E-book for instance.

Sometimes you will want to see me live in a targeted video advice.

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This is why I offer this multi tools approach.

Easily winning your life challenges has to do with immersion! You dive into it! Having something to read + watch + listen to + actively participate in is ideal.

I created this package with these various formats because I know it is what works best!

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Jealousy - For Men - $19

Yes! I am ready! I want to get rid of my jealousy! | Give me Lifetime! Unlimited! Instant Access! to my complete "Tame my jealousy" System! | Includes Ebook, Videos, MP3's, and more!


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