You can have all the info and still mess it up!
These are skills you train, practice, sustain or fine tune.
It’s rare to get it right straight away all the time.
Give yourself room for some wrong notes, side tracks or exploration.
It’s ok to test new communication patterns to see how she responds to it.
If you mess it up, forgive yourself, give her a deep apology and play again.
Staying in the fear zone to avoid mistakes is the best way to miss your opportunities to evolve.
Take a curiosity attitude.
All these shadow dynamics are fascinating and there is deep beauty and high energy embedded in them.
Dare to play, explore and learn from your experiences