Relationship sabotage – Positive conversation – Role play – NOTE

  • Person 1 – share dilemma 

for instance… “I want to date you but realize that I want my freedom too – what do you suggest I do with that?”

  • Person 2 – Acknowledge, listen, respect, understand
For instance… “I totally understand that you want your freedom – I totally respect that – I am not here to limit you, on the contrary, I admire the fact that you are so direct and I am totally ok with what you say.”
Instead of… “Whaou! I can’t believe this! You could have told me that ealier instead of wasting my time! Good bye and don’t contact me again!”