Suppose that a friend shares their break up experience and that reminds you of what you went through last year.

You still feel charged around that.

You add oil to the fire by bringing in your own set of undigested emotions.

See how this works?

Is it helpful?

Between friends we do that because we are in spontaneous flow.

Having to micromanage your emotions to always be politically correct or emotionally clean can be exhausting and unreal.

But when it comes to coaching professionally, that’s a whole different story.

Your communication style must be clean!

Don’t bring your undigested traumas to the table.

This session is not about you!

It is about your client!

Don’t hijack the session for your own emotional release needs.