She wants to feel safe!
Safe means creating comfort.
You build comfort by letting her see that you respect her.
Now, don’t put yourself down!
Combine this respect with a high level of confidence!
This is not about becoming some form of enslaved servant who behaves like a tamed and weak non-male.
Make her feel safe by holding the door for her, inviting her to dinner, teasing her, and letting her know how you treat the people you love.
You would never hit a woman! Tell her!
Kids are safe around you!
You don’t get into uncontrolled road rages!
You don’t insult the memory of your exes!
Let her see that even though you have a massive amount of personal power, you have this power totally under control!