Here it comes!
It is not fight by itself that creates pain, it is the fact that you have no fighting vehicle to play with this energy.
If you develop shadow skills and know exactly how to master and play with friction, fights are easy and fun!
The reason why fights might be stressful and painful for you is because you don’t have tactics and mind sets to play with conflicting energies.
You can be in the middle of energetic battles and have fun with it!
Look at big waves in the ocean!
Some people use them to surf skillfully and surpass their limits!
Some others might be swallowed by the waves and die!
The wave is not the problem!
It is how you handle it that matters!!!