I've fallen in love with a wonderful man from Denver

I've fallen in love with a wonderful man from Denver

Postby Guest » Fri Jul 08, 2005 3:19 am

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I've fallen in love with a wonderful man from Denver. Both of us have been communicating for almost a year. Emails, phone calls, letters...and see each other in the webcam.

He had plans of spending christmas here, but financial difficulties came up suddenly. For the past few wks, he has been withdrawn and hardly communicates.

I'm worried that he might have changed his mind about me. We both have the same goals in life, and want to spend the rest of our lives together. But why do I feel that i'm shut out? We never keep secrets from one another. Should i lessen my emailing or sending him cards everyday?

Should I give him more space and just continue to be supportive to him instead of worrying too much?

Postby vitalcoach » Fri Jul 08, 2005 3:19 am


Worrying helps noone. It is draining for you and stops you from enjoying life right now,

So yes!!!! stop worrying.

The danger with online connections is to invest too much before there are any serious guarantees that it will work out.

You build up very high expectations. When it does not follow up the way you expect, you feel "love ache".

The goal is to let go and slightly desinvest emotionally. Lower your expectations and keep your options open at this stage.

The moment you meet and there is a clear sign of mutual commitment, you can definitely invest further.

Do not worry. Enjoy this connection and if he does not follow up, be ready to get your full power and invest in other connections.

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i met a wonderful guy from denver

Postby MusicalEmy35 » Wed Apr 13, 2011 9:48 pm

dont get into his your options more. you canstill talk to him, and if hes with someone else be bold and just be under standing.on the other hand, things may work out great!

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