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How can you get into trouble with office flirting?

How can you get into trouble with office flirting?

Postby Guest » Tue Feb 07, 2006 9:24 am

How can you get into trouble with office flirting?
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Postby vitalcoach » Sun Apr 03, 2011 1:29 pm

You get in trouble the minute you start loving someone who does not love you back.

There is a very clear line between flirting and dating. Flirting is light, fun and free. There are no demands, no commitmenst and no expectations.

Dating is a whole different story! You get in trouble if in your mind, you shift from light flirt to serious relationship without knowing the other person's true intentions.

Many guys and women enjoy a light flirt but would never committ. Don't misread the signs. A light flirt is in fact rarely an invitation to spend the rest of your life together. To many, it is just a way of relating. It relaxes the atmosphere at work and brings in a spark of needed fantazy and excitement.

If you start claiming the object of your flirt, you are doomed! This is a big no-no! No demands and no expectations. Claiming someone is the best way to kill the flirting game in no time!

If you are already in a committed relationship, ask yourself this simple question: "What would my wife or husband say about this?".

Of course, responding to your bosses advances can mean instant collapse of your career dreams. While it might give you some instant gratification and fun, it does put you down in everyone's eyes.

Handle this potential pitfall with great care!

Enjoy!

vitalcoach


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