I am starting work tonight for the first time. I am going to be working Sundays too. Me and my bf live about an hour apart and try to see each other as much as we can. we have been seeing each other every weekend and Tuesday nights.
On Sunday I will be working 1-5. which means we loose 4 hours of spending time together. My bf is going to stay at my house whilst I work and then we shall spend time together after I finish work. But he is only going to try it out and see if he likes it or not. Or the other idea is for him to come over Monday night and Wednesday night instead of Tuesdays.
I don’t mind that idea but I like the thought of seeing my bf after work and spending time together. I will be finishing at 5 which gives us even more time 2geva than when he comes over on Tuesdays. He normally gets to mine at about 7 on Tuesdays.
I don’t think 4 hours is long to wait. I have been to his house and waited for him to come home from work and that was waiting from 9 until about 6!!
What do you reckon?
Time is too precious to spend it simply waiting for someone to come home.
If he wants to do it, that’s fine, but if he says he prefers going for something else, I would not blame him for that.
If he does not go with it, don’t take it as a sign that he does not care or love you, he probably simply values his time.
His time is “his” time. If you love him give him the freedom to use it the way he wants. Don’t put him under pressure. This could mean trouble. Let him free.