He sees lack of emotional independence.
He sees neediness.
He thinks “I am responsible for making her happy”.
You suddenly become a burden or responsability he doesn’t want.
Can you see that?
In your mind, you think that sharing these profound feelings let him see how much you love him?
Of course they do!
Yes! He sees a woman who appears to be committed to him but he sees weakness as well.
This weakness is a turn off.
This type of line usually gives you the opposite to what you want. It actually makes him less attracted to you!
What to say instead?
“You want to break up? Sure – Let’s put an end to this… I agree with you – I needed some space and freedom to see other people anyway – I think I am going to immensely enjoy the coming few weeks…”
You might think that saying this makes you appear unloving or uncaring?
That’s NOT the message he hears!
He sees a woman who is super confident and about to have a really good time!
It challenges him!
In his mind, he already thinks of what’s he’s going to miss if he’s not part of it…
To your power!