That’s an invasion of your privacy.
When she breaks up, you need to establish a new set of boundaries.
It is your right to protect your personal space.
So, do what it takes to feel emotionally safe in your own house.
Be realistic with it: it is simply very challenging to move on when she is on the phone wanting to share with you all sorts of things or even worse, blaming you for the past.
Again, get your full power back and put a limit.
If you don’t protect yourself, she’ll keep invading you and your space.
Defend your territory.
Create space for new things to happen in your life.
It is your right to defend yourself.
Do what it takes to protect your space.
A call a week is okay.
A call a day is not.