What is stopping him from asking you out?
Today’s tip is very simple simple and might answer a question you have been asking yourself: “Why on earth isn’t he not taking the steps and asking me out?”
Here are 3 key reasons:
Fear of rejection: Guys are like you. They want to avoid pain and challenging situations. A man who asks a woman’s phone number has 80% chances of getting rejected (that’s the real numbers!). Challenging for a man to take the step!
He thinks it is going to be complicated: Dating can sometimes become a hassle. The risk of dating someone who becomes clingy, possessive or very jealous is quite big.
His mind is busy: He is still finishing a relationship, or too busy with a professional challenge. An interesting fact: 40% of guys in the UK affirm to be sometimes too stressed up to have sex. To date you need space and inner freedom.
Step 1: make it very very clear to him that if he approaches you, you’ll say yes!
Step 2: be a problem free zone. Act like one, be one. Focus on fun and enjoyment. Show him you are fun to be with.
Step 3: Timing is everything. Follow you instinct with that one. Jump in at the right moment!
The week end is coming! Enjoy the opportunities! What risks and actions are you prepared to take to get what you want?