20 THINGS A WOMAN SECRETLY WANTS (AND HOW TO TURN HER ON BY GIVING THEM TO HER)


Why does this list matter?

Because attraction isn’t logical—it’s energetic.
You don’t win her heart with words alone.
You win it by activating frequencies in her field.

Every woman holds dormant desires.
When you awaken them, she FEELS you.
And that feeling?
That’s attraction.

So forget cheesy pickup lines.
Forget trying to impress.
Learn to bring energy.
Learn to be the man who unlocks her.

Let’s go.


1. She wants to have fun

Life can feel heavy. Be her escape.

Say: “Let’s break routine. Sunset beach dance. Just us.”

Be the man who brings lightness.


2. She wants to be entertained

Not like Netflix entertained.
I mean stories. Humor. Play. Wit.

Say: “Wait till you hear what happened to me today. You’ll die laughing.”

Make her laugh and feel alive.


3. She wants to be surprised

Predictability kills passion.

Say: “Be ready in 30 minutes. Dress sexy. No clues.”

Surprise creates emotional spikes—the brain craves them.


4. She wants to be guided

She’s tired of making all the decisions.

Say: “Follow me.”
Lead with confidence.
No hesitation. No approval-seeking.


5. She wants to feel sexy

Not just told she’s sexy.
Made to feel it.

Say: “That dress wasn’t ready for your body.”
Look at her like she’s magic.


6. She wants to surrender

But only if she feels safe.

Say: “I’ve got you. You don’t need to do a thing tonight.”

Safety creates space for surrender.


7. She wants to feel chosen

Not just liked.
Claimed.

Say: “I’ve been with women before. But none made me feel what you do.”

Direct. Bold. Clear.


8. She wants to be challenged

Not attacked.
Challenged. Called higher.

Say: “Don’t shrink. You’re powerful as hell—own it.”

Challenge with love. It turns her on.


9. She wants to feel desired

Real, raw, primal desire.

Say: “I can’t stop thinking about tasting you.”

Yeah. That.


10. She wants to feel emotionally seen

Not just heard.
Felt.

Say: “I can feel how much that affected you. I’m here with you.”

That’s presence. That’s depth.


11. She wants to be playfully dominated

In bed. In life. With a wink.

Say: “Sit. Don’t ask questions. I’m in control now.”

Consent + power = fire.


12. She wants to feel feminine

Help her drop the mask.

Say: “Let the world go. Just be in your body now.”

Invite her softness forward.


13. She wants to be pursued

Even after you “got” her.

Say: “I can’t get enough of you. Let’s sneak away tonight.”

The chase never ends.


14. She wants to feel magical

Like a goddess, a mystery, a wild storm.

Say: “You’re not like anyone I’ve ever met. You cast spells when you speak.”

Let her feel mythical.


15. She wants deep presence

Phones off. Eyes locked.

Say nothing. Just be with her.
She’ll feel it. Fully.


16. She wants to co-create beauty

Not just consume. Create.

Say: “Let’s make something together. Art. Food. Magic.”

Shared creation = shared intimacy.


17. She wants to be touched intentionally

Not just groped.

Say: “I want to explore every inch of you… like art.”

Worship her. Slowly.


18. She wants to feel emotionally safe

Especially when vulnerable.

Say: “Nothing you say will make me leave. I want all of you.”

Mean it.


19. She wants to feel emotionally impactful

That she can move you.

Say: “What you said hit me deep. I’m still feeling it.”

Let her know she matters.


20. She wants the real you

Unmasked. Unfiltered.

Say: “Here I am. No pretending. No armor.”

Because when you’re real, she feels free to be too.


Final Truth:

When a woman meets a man who can unlock these desires,
she remembers him forever.

Not because of what he said.
Not because of what he did.

But because of how he made her feel.

That’s not game.

That’s power.

That’s art.

That’s attraction mastery.


About the author

Shiva Rajaya

Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind