- Self-Regulate
Master your own emotions first. Stay grounded and calm no matter how intense his energy gets—your centeredness is your power. - Set Clear Boundaries
Define what’s acceptable and what’s not. Boundaries protect your energy and teach him that respect is non-negotiable. - Educate, Don’t Criticize
Instead of judging, share your expectations and needs. Gentle guidance can help him grow and recognize his own potential. - Retract When Needed
Don’t engage every time. Sometimes the best response is to step back and give him space to self-reflect. - Fight or Confront with Purpose
When confrontation is needed, do it with respect. A direct, purposeful approach can break through resistance without triggering defensiveness. - Inquire with Curiosity
Ask questions that encourage self-awareness. Curiosity can help him see his shadows and open up in ways that lead to real change.
