Go sometimes to the places that feel uncomfortable, the areas that will stretch you or bring you to your edge!
Challenge yourself to access these deeper...
A big aspect of this tantric exploration is to master your shadows, understand your animal instincts and find energetic pathways to play with these energie...
Call that emotional speed!
Your ability to succeed in life has everything to do with #emotionalintelligence, your ability to shift mind sets fast, integ...
Especially in lovers context, we tend to think that tantra is all about sweetness and love and harmony.
It's not!
The light aspects of relating are only a...
In the last 3 days, super powerful experiences kicked in.
I am still digesting and integrating what happened and I don't have a clear rational way of sharing...
Yes! The word shadow attack might feel a bit strong, but as a man, that's how you might experience her energetic projections.
It can get pretty intense.
I...
Vital fight practices are amongst the most challenging to integrate.
I encourage you to try this within safe sessions or workshops with me.
But in case yo...
Here are some empowering affirmations you can use when being exposed to female shadows.
These attitudes bring you to staying centered and untouched.
...
For some people, debating is like a sport - This is why they will look for any reasons to argue with you - It gives them a kick - It's just a way of bei...
Here are some often unspoken marriage shadows.
A few good ones to have a look at...
I will love you forever = I will love you until you do some stupid...
Your facebook wall, youtube channel and the other social channels that you own are yours.
This means that you have the right to protect that space and keep it ...
Look... I agree, sometimes people around you are toxic or simply mess up.
Sometimes their intentions will just be to hurt you.
The fact that negativ...
Here is an example:
"My ex cheated on me - - > All men are cheaters"
"My ex cheated on me" = fact
"All men are cheaters" = interpretation = over gene...
This one is especially designed for these lovely fights you might encounter where your partner totally loses it and becomes hysterical.
Take a pic of...
Think about it for a sec!
How much energy and resources are invested in activating and sustaining conflict or competition.
We are really evolved living be...
Emotional pain can be triggered by loss, break up, separation, abandonment, etc.
In the core of this pain, bliss can be accessed.
You active an energy flow a...
Emotional pain can be for instance a desire which is unfulfilled.
A desire is an emotional impulse, a vision of something.
This desire triggers a flow of ene...
Imagine that you have a lover and that you end up blaming each other back and forth.
It seems like a broken record of ongoing complaints, resentment and crit...
A fight is the battle between two energy sources that interact in dynamic ways.
In arguments it's the conflict of beliefs or perspectives.
If you look behind...
You have many variations for that one:
COMBAT
ARGUMENT
DISAGREEMENT
BATTLE
CONFLICT
CLASH
BLAME GAME
CONFRONTATION
PROVOCATION
SABOTAGE
ATTACK
COMPETITION
DR...
Fight circles are protected containers in which fight simulations can take place.
Here are a few names for that:
FIGHT CIRCLE
CONFRONTATION CIRCLE
BATTLE CIR...
Rivaling means systematically entering in competing patterns.
This often happens in couples or between friends.
It creates this inner tension in which each p...
Fighting dirty means using tools that are not too ethical and are off usual values.
This happens a lot in divorce battles.
Divorces get dirty in this ca...
Elbowing means fighting your way to success often in dirty and aggressive ways.
Success can mean fighting your way to enter your bus for instance.
You c...
Antagonizing means systematically taking an opposing or fighting position to trigger conflict.
Antagonistic people trigger fights because they are addicted...
Rallying means joining forces or creating bonds with fight partners.
This is one of the core battle tactics.
At the end of this line, you get global con...
In my work with break ups and divorces, I see men and women doing that all the time.They take their problem to court thinking that their lawyer will destroy...
Ok, we have been checking patterns and describing the nature of shadows for a few months now.
It is time to dive in specific tactics.
Imagine that you have s...
Some people will throw fight triggers at you, especially when they are bored and they need some fresh energy.
That's the way the spirit sometimes brings chall...
Ok, here is a piece of wisdom that can radically shifts the way you see fights, conflicts and tensions in any aspect of your life!
Here it comes!
It is not f...
This is probably one of the most powerful communication techniques to stop fights!
The idea is simple.
You let the other share for 5 min without interrupting...
Why can make up sex be so powerful and intense?It is because you build up emotional intensity through fight and then project that intensity in love making....
When exposed to emotional violence you have two opposed sets of responses.The first set is:• Resenting• Victimizing• Leaving• Escaping• Avoiding• Disconnecting•...
In couples, that's probably one of the most challenging experiences you can face in life!Fights!Arguments!The reason they are usually distressing is because the...
Suppose that you get a message from someone accusing you of not being present enough for them.
They tell you that you neglected them in a specific situation, ...
This can be an internal or external shadow.For instance you might have a lover or romantic partner that systematically confuses you.
They might mislead y...
Enjoy them!
Play with them!
Embrace them!
Use conflicts as a source of fun and energy!
Activate your fighting powers!
Jump in battles with detachment and ...
If you open a VITAL GATE, meet every morning at 9, meet as a tribe and dos some sharing with a simple structure and guidelines that I described earlier.
I ...
Fighting is a way to generate energy.Fighting creates friction!Friction creates fire!Fire is energy!-----If you have been fighting a lot in your couple for inst...
