JEALOUSY MASTERY COACHING
JEALOUSY AUDIO ARCHIVE
JEALOUSY VIDEO ARCHIVE
Imagine yourself in the plains of Africa 400’000 years ago at the very roots of human civilization. You are a woman with 3 children and a husband. If your man runs away with a female from a rival tribe who will hunt and bring you food? Your children’s chances of survival would be incredibly diminished.
YOUR life! You were born with the right for self determination! When your partner tries to dominate you, they violate one of your most basic human rights: your right to choose! You have the right to choose: Your thoughts, emotions, feelings and beliefs Your actions Your speech Your relationships to others Your social life Your
Oh that’s the simplest question! It takes 1 to 3 months of training to tame most of your jealousy, learn and practice new behaviors. Some changes happen instantly and some others take more time. If you are consistent, you might get rid of 80% of your jealousy within 30 days but it doesn’t necessarily mean
I got this good question from a client: —– “I just have one question… Why do you blame the man for having this emotional response and jealousy towards a woman? Often I feel that there is great part that needs to be done by the woman as she also needs to very carefully watch her
Call your coach instead of talking to your partner Avoid trigger situations Create new mind sets Get rid of the energy overload Don’t bring it up with friends Change your speech Use hypnotic audios Develop emotional independence by expanding your social circle Practice emotionally mature reactions Build up personal power Destroy your insecurities Pause, watch,
Negative reactions: Anxiety Insecurity Anger Emotional crisis Positive reactions: Survival instinct Power Awareness Awakening Bliss Pleasure Compersion Turn on Pleasure, compersion and turn on are the other extreme to jealousy – It is the ability to feel pleasure through your partner’s pleasure. For instance if your partner was having sex with someone else and you
Master that emotion rather than being enslaved by it Protect your couple + strengthen your connection with your partner
Here are some behaviors that don’t work when you feel jealousy and want to do something about it: Begging Complaining Whining Self defeating Destructive Violent Instead try these: Open question: “What is ok and what is not in our relationship?”, “If I was doing what you do, would you be ok with that?” Confident –
Now, how do you think this makes HER feel??? CONTROL = COERCIVE POWERCONTROL = EMOTIONAL THREATCONTROL = PSYCHIC PRESSURE It’s ALL BAD!
Suppose that she starts chatting a lot with a very invasive male colleague. He frequently texts or calls her in the evening. You start feeling frustrated with this issue… What do you do? Right there you have 4 possible options: Talk to her Deal with it yourself Have a chat with a friend or family member about