- See Cyber dating as a training ground – Consider dating sites as a training ground. Learn how to behave in that environment. Discover the do’s and don’ts.
- Learn to protect yourself – Discover your own natural boundaries and dare to set them up clearly. If you don’t like someone, simply block their messages.
- Rejection trap – Giving up on that scene with the first sign of rejection or overreacting on a negative message.
- Expecting too much – Take the cyber scene with lightness and fun. Enjoy and don’t take it too seriously
- Exclusivity trap – Don’t give all your attention to just one person. Keep a “networking” attitude. Keep your options open.
- Focus on the positives – Listen to the positives. If you get a message you don’t like, delete it straight away, let go and move on.
- Be realistic! – It’s nice to dream, but stay awake and aware.
- Too many requirements? – Limiting your choice and being too selective can be a trap. Time to broaden your view?
- Learn from your experiences! -The key is to try, to experience and to adapt quickly. If you sent 50 messages and did not get a response, shift your strategy!
- Have fun! – Relax, enjoy, and have fun!
