20 EXAMPLES OF WHAT WOMEN MIGHT DO OR SAY THAT KILLS POLARITY

1. Undermining His Decisions:

• Example: “Why did you choose this? You never make good decisions.”

1. Mothering Him:

• Example: “Let me do that, you’re just going to mess it up.”

1. Emasculating Comments:

• Example: “My ex would have handled this better.”

1. Constant Criticism:

• Example: “You’re wearing that? You don’t look good in those clothes.”

1. Dismissiveness:

• Example: “I don’t need your help; I can do it all myself.”

1. Ignoring His Contributions:

• Example: “You don’t really contribute much to our relationship, do you?”

1. Comparing to Other Men:

• Example: “Why can’t you be more like her husband?”

1. Belittling His Career or Ambitions:

• Example: “Are you ever going to earn a real salary?”

1. Taking Control of Every Situation:

• Example: “Just let me handle everything; you’ll just slow things down.”

1. Lack of Appreciation:
   • Example: “You never do anything right.”
2. Withholding Affection:
   • Example: “I don’t feel like being close to you when you’re like this.”
3. Public Embarrassment:
   • Example: “He’s always like this, sorry everyone.”
4. Contradicting Him in Front of Others:
   • Example: “Actually, that’s not right at all,” when he’s speaking.
5. Negativity Towards His Interests:
   • Example: “I don’t know why you waste time on that hobby.”
6. Disinterest in His Life:
   • Example: “Can we talk about something else? Your stories are boring.”
7. Making Major Decisions Alone:
   • Example: “I went ahead and made the plans without you.”
8. Non-Constructive Feedback:
   • Example: “You always mess things up.”
9. Overbearing Behavior:
   • Example: “You should just listen to me to avoid problems.”
10. Minimizing His Feelings:
    • Example: “You’re just overreacting; it’s not a big deal.”
11. Dominating Conversations:
    • Example: “Let me talk, what you’re saying isn’t important.”

These behaviors and statements can undermine the respect and admiration necessary for maintaining polarity in relationships. They often involve criticism, a lack of appreciation, or undermining the partner’s role, which can significantly diminish the attraction and overall dynamic between the couple.