5 TIPS FOR REFLECTIVE LISTENING


Reflective listening is a powerful skill, especially in the realms of coaching, teaching, and therapy. Here are five tips to enhance your practice:

  1. Pay Full Attention: Listen actively without planning your response while the other person is speaking. Give your complete attention to the speaker, both verbally and non-verbally, showing you are fully engaged.
  2. Mirror Emotions and Content: Reflect back the emotions and content you hear. For instance, if someone expresses frustration, acknowledge that emotion by saying something like, “It sounds like you’re feeling really frustrated because…”
  3. Ask Open-Ended Questions: Encourage deeper exploration by asking open-ended questions that can’t be answered with a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’. This helps the speaker to elaborate on their thoughts and feelings.
  4. Avoid Judgment and Advice: Keep your own opinions and advice to yourself unless specifically asked. Reflective listening is about understanding the other person’s perspective, not about providing solutions.
  5. Summarize and Clarify: Periodically summarize what you’ve heard to ensure you’ve understood correctly. This also helps the speaker to hear their own thoughts and feelings expressed back to them, which can be very clarifying.

Remember, reflective listening is a skill that improves with practice and can significantly enhance the depth and effectiveness of your conversations as a coach and therapist.


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Shiva Rajaya

Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind


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