Did she have in mind to break up with you a long time before she actually took the step? – TIP

In many cases, yes!

A break up is an important decision and usually people don’t take that decision lightly.

If she was in a relationship with you, it means that she probably enjoyed at least some part of it.

She probably hesitated for some time before deciding to take the step.

During this trial period when she is not sure what to do yet, she listens to her feelings and tries to get a pick into her future.