Radiance is the main thing. What does actually emanate from the guy. This will impact on me, generate an immediate feeling.
His appearance, looks, that’s the second thing. Is he giving attention to himself? Clean? Grooming?
The third aspect is his attitude. Being arrogant, gloomy or feeling miserable are definitely big turn offs! Being self confident is good but don’t overdo it… A little mystery is very attractive.
