INSTEAD OF PROJECTING TRY THESE 6 RELATIONSHIP COMMUNICATION SUPERPOWERS


Projecting in the context of romantic relationship communication refers to the act of unconsciously attributing one’s own feelings, thoughts, or traits onto their partner, instead of recognizing these characteristics as their own. It often involves misinterpreting the partner’s words or actions based on one’s own internal emotions or unresolved issues.

The opposite of projecting in a couple’s communication is practicing active listening and self-awareness. This approach involves several key components:

  1. Active Listening: Fully concentrating, understanding, responding, and remembering what is being said. It’s about being present in the conversation without preparing your response while the other person is speaking.
  2. Self-awareness: Understanding your own feelings, biases, and triggers. Instead of attributing your feelings or reactions to your partner (projection), you recognize and own them as your own.
  3. Empathy: Trying to understand your partner’s perspective without immediately interpreting it through your own emotional filter.
  4. Clear Self-Expression: Communicating your own needs and feelings clearly and respectfully, without blaming or making the other person responsible for your emotions.
  5. Asking Questions: Seeking clarification and more information to fully understand your partner’s viewpoint, rather than assuming or interpreting based on your own biases.
  6. Mindfulness: Staying in the present moment and being attentive to the current conversation, rather than bringing in past issues or future worries.

By focusing on these aspects, one can foster a more understanding, respectful, and compassionate communication style, which is the antithesis of projecting one’s own feelings or motives onto another person. This empowers both individuals to express themselves authentically and build a deeper connection based on mutual understanding and respect.


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Shiva Rajaya

Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind


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