MAKING REQUESTS SIMPLE 10 STEPS SEQUENCE


  • CLARIFY NEED
  • CHOOSE TIMING
  • EXPRESS DIRECTLY
  • BE SPECIFIC
  • STAY RESPECTFUL
  • LISTEN ACTIVELY
  • DISCUSS FEASIBILITY
  • NEGOTIATE ALTERNATIVES
  • AGREE MUTUALLY
  • FOLLOW-UP SOON

EXAMPLES

  • CLARIFY NEED: “I need more quality time together.”
  • CHOOSE TIMING: “Can we talk after dinner?”
  • EXPRESS DIRECTLY: “I would like us to go on more dates.”
  • BE SPECIFIC: “How about a date night every Friday?”
  • STAY RESPECTFUL: “I understand if you’re busy, but this is important to me.”
  • LISTEN ACTIVELY: “I’m open to hearing your thoughts on this.”
  • DISCUSS FEASIBILITY: “Is this something we can realistically do?”
  • NEGOTIATE ALTERNATIVES: “If Fridays don’t work, perhaps another day?”
  • AGREE MUTUALLY: “Let’s agree on a day that works for both of us.”
  • FOLLOW-UP SOON: “Let’s check in next week to see how this is going.”

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Shiva Rajaya

Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind


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